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02-28-2017, 07:19 PM
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#22676 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by PK-EK  we've hung out a couple of times now.
watched a few movies together.
went to the mall and had dinner with her yesterday.
(Spent 7 hours together yesterday)
Yesterday was alright. Pretty boring start.
its hard when both people are quiet and somewhat shy.
but towards the end of the night we parked at the top of the hill overlooking the city and had a really nice intellectual talk.
I want to say that she is kind of boring.... but not to the point where I can't stand it.
I really don't know where I'm going with this one guys.....
A part of me thinks i'm just settling...
I feel like i'm chasing that "puppy love" feeling i got with UBC girl
I mean, who am i to be choosy?
Girls never really accept me, so why not give this one a chance. At least she's accepting me for who i am |
make a move already dude! I feel like I'm reading a twilight novel 
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03-01-2017, 08:38 AM
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#22677 | | うに
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Originally Posted by SpeedStars PK, y'all just talked overlooking the city?? 
That's a pretty good setting for some smooching |  Quote:
Originally Posted by tiger_handheld which hill? can you share? | crescent heights and noise hill part (remember, i'm in Hicktown Alberta)
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03-01-2017, 02:20 PM
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#22678 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by EvoLove Well idk what pulling a sick joke counts as... | There's another saying that goes along the lines of "With friends like that, who needs enemies?"
Cut your losses, if they were your friends, they wouldn't pull that kind of shit that they know will truly hurt you deep down.
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03-01-2017, 02:27 PM
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#22679 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I want to say that she is kind of boring.... but not to the point where I can't stand it. | 
Do you really list out negatives as a reason to date someone? Like when I date someone I always talk about the good things about her first. Maybe if you change your perception of the people you date, it would change your outlook on what people think about you when they date you. Don't kid yourself, if you are hanging out with somebody, hang out because you want to, not because you're lonely.
Seriously, you have to stop coming up with fucking safety nets on justifying the situation when things don't work out.
You know how I see this if you don't start a relationship? "Oh, she was boring anyways; I just can't stand it now where I was able to before"
Stop, just stop it. Stop wasting her time; stop wasting your own time.
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03-01-2017, 02:48 PM
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#22680 | | うに
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^good
I needed someone to tell me that
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03-01-2017, 03:25 PM
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#22681 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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^ Let's compare and contrast the way you describe your day out with her and the way I described my day: Quote:
Originally Posted by ZN6 What a fun day. I could not have found a better way to spend my time on a dreary sunday. The way you are so keen on crafting something, the way you look when you are confused, the sparkle in your eye when you have the eureka moment.
Our first little project and hopefully many more to come. We sure put that camera through it's paces shortly after we built it. | Quote:
Originally Posted by PK-EK we've hung out a couple of times now.
watched a few movies together.
went to the mall and had dinner with her yesterday.
(Spent 7 hours together yesterday)
Yesterday was alright. Pretty boring start.
its hard when both people are quiet and somewhat shy.
but towards the end of the night we parked at the top of the hill overlooking the city and had a really nice intellectual talk.
I want to say that she is kind of boring.... but not to the point where I can't stand it.
I really don't know where I'm going with this one guys.....
A part of me thinks i'm just settling...
I feel like i'm chasing that "puppy love" feeling i got with UBC girl
I mean, who am i to be choosy?
Girls never really accept me, so why not give this one a chance. At least she's accepting me for who i am | Do you see that I'm happy to spend the time rather than just killing time aimlessly to be with someone? It's like, FUUUUUCK, your story bore me to shit just reading it. If you found something she liked to do maybe you'll find that she's not that boring.
You see, even if I did fail, I would have looked back and that was time worth spending with her. I wouldn't find an excuse to say why she wasn't the one. It's your whole mindset that fucks you up, not the situation. I gotta say, if almost no girl accepts you, doesn't that kinda signal a common denominator?
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03-01-2017, 03:27 PM
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#22682 | | God of Unce
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But what ZN6 really meant was... "fuck this camera".
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03-01-2017, 04:36 PM
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#22683 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Calgary is cold as fuck. It's no fun.
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03-01-2017, 04:45 PM
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#22684 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by Armind But what ZN6 really meant was... "fuck this camera". | Srs. fuck dat camera. The spring that you have to put in was bull-fucking-shit.
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03-01-2017, 08:03 PM
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#22685 | | I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
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Originally Posted by PK-EK we've hung out a couple of times now.
watched a few movies together.
went to the mall and had dinner with her yesterday.
(Spent 7 hours together yesterday)
Yesterday was alright. Pretty boring start.
its hard when both people are quiet and somewhat shy.
but towards the end of the night we parked at the top of the hill overlooking the city and had a really nice intellectual talk.
I want to say that she is kind of boring.... but not to the point where I can't stand it.
I really don't know where I'm going with this one guys.....
A part of me thinks i'm just settling...
I feel like i'm chasing that "puppy love" feeling i got with UBC girl
I mean, who am i to be choosy?
Girls never really accept me, so why not give this one a chance. At least she's accepting me for who i am | I don't blame you man.
1st of all, thank you for posting your good & bad stuff, stories makes it fun to read. So yeah, we all have ups and downs on date, but if it wasn't for these boring ones this forum would be bad shit boring.
I've been on boat loads of boring dates, sometimes just have to embrace it. I dated a chick 5 yrs younger; great on phone, but boring as fuck in person.
when i dropped her off, she knew it was the end; she even said "i know you're not going to call me again, but i hope to see u on the road (we share same road hobbies)"
*i'm like dang bitch, just close the door, i wanna go home.  | |
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03-01-2017, 08:16 PM
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#22686 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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he can still make a move lol, make it worth our time!
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03-01-2017, 11:22 PM
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#22687 | | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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So I talk to this girl in my class but don't talk to her outside of school and I give her rides home after class.
I took her out for coffee earlier today and it seemed like it went well. Might ask if she wants to go out again some time.
Am I in the friend zone though? Lmao
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03-01-2017, 11:27 PM
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#22688 | | :inoutugh:
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Originally Posted by JSALES So I talk to this girl in my class but don't talk to her outside of school and I give her rides home after class.
I took her out for coffee earlier today and it seemed like it went well. Might ask if she wants to go out again some time.
Am I in the friend zone though? Lmao | Won't know until you try. At least you got in some coffee and hopefully it wasn't all school talk. 
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03-02-2017, 11:08 AM
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#22689 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by JSALES So I talk to this girl in my class but don't talk to her outside of school and I give her rides home after class.
I took her out for coffee earlier today and it seemed like it went well. Might ask if she wants to go out again some time.
Am I in the friend zone though? Lmao | Give it a shot, never hurts to try. Worst case scenario she'll say no, or something along the lines of she's not ready yet and just go with the flow 
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03-02-2017, 11:23 AM
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#22690 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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Things are going great right now. Midterms are coming but I have those dialed in, in a good place with the gf, businesses are going well, feel like all of the work and all of the organizational systems I have put into place the last year or so are finally paying off. Pretty damn happy I stopped being a stoner and kicked my depression to the curb.
For all those struggling and feeling like you're in a low place, keep grinding. You'll make it through. 
Edit: Just realized I've been on RS for 5 years since last month. Holy shit.
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03-02-2017, 11:25 AM
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#22691 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by JSALES So I talk to this girl in my class but don't talk to her outside of school and I give her rides home after class.
I took her out for coffee earlier today and it seemed like it went well. Might ask if she wants to go out again some time.
Am I in the friend zone though? Lmao | Start talking to her outside of class then. Ask her what she likes to do, that's always a start. What do YOU like to do? Just converse like you would to a friend.
Here's the thing about walking a tightrope: You think professionals do it thinking about the ways it will fall? No, otherwise they'd be preoccupied and then they'd fuck up. Sometimes you just have to tune out and focus on what you're best at and flock.
This whole friendzone concept to me is fucking retarded. If I want to talk to someone, I just talk to them. If they don't then I won't talk to them. That's one thing I learned from a wise old Jewish dude I used to work with. He's just talkative as a sales guy. Whoever wants to listen he'll talk to and people love him, but I will say he's as good of a listener as he is a talker. With age comes the power to not give too much shits. Just be mindful of the other party's feelings.
The more you worry about it, the more that it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Honestly, break out of worrying about it. Be cool and casual. I stopped worry about the "friendzone" so long ago that I just simply don't care about it anymore. It just takes the edge off being with the opposite sex.
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03-02-2017, 11:55 PM
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#22692 | | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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I have started talking to her outside of class a bit more, we actually went out for dinner after class today and surprisingly she offered to pay but I obviously declined. I guess I'll just go with the flow and see how it plays out lol
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03-03-2017, 09:03 AM
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#22693 | | God of Unce
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If you get friendzoned, ZN6 will eat you alive.
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03-03-2017, 02:01 PM
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#22694 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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I just wanna help people avoid the "friendzone" and wasting time. I still think the whole friendzone thing is completely dumb. Don't wanna be in it? Walk away. Wanna continue the awkwardness? Fine, by all means.
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03-03-2017, 09:12 PM
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#22695 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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Originally Posted by alwayslive Things are going great right now. Midterms are coming but I have those dialed in, in a good place with the gf, businesses are going well, feel like all of the work and all of the organizational systems I have put into place the last year or so are finally paying off. Pretty damn happy I stopped being a stoner and kicked my depression to the curb.
For all those struggling and feeling like you're in a low place, keep grinding. You'll make it through.
Edit: Just realized I've been on RS for 5 years since last month. Holy shit. | What businesses did u come up with in the last 5 years?
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03-04-2017, 01:29 PM
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#22696 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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Met girl on app
talked to girl for a month
haven't had chance to meet due to conflicting schedules
she stopped talking to me
fuck me
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03-04-2017, 01:32 PM
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#22697 | | うに
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^ I hate to say this, but that's your own fault
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Originally Posted by TOS'd The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS. | | |
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03-04-2017, 01:36 PM
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#22698 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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Originally Posted by PK-EK ^ I hate to say this, but that's your own fault | I know and I feel like shit for it.
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03-04-2017, 02:51 PM
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#22699 | | うに
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good, i'm glad you realised you were wrong.
now stop wasting time and move on
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03-04-2017, 07:02 PM
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#22700 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Got some tough love going on in here. Wtf did I start?
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