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06-19-2017, 09:03 AM
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#22901 | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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This city has nothing to offer me anymore.
I'm gonna drop everything here and relocate to Toronto by the end of next year or 2020.
This is a personal goal, I got nothing to lose here. Unless something drastically happens from now til' then.
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06-20-2017, 01:10 AM
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#22902 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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idk what to do... i like this girl, i connect with her really well from my perspective atleast, and i like her alot, but my friend who has known her longer also likes her... what am i suppose to do... i want to be with her but i also dont want to ruin my brohood with him...
(edit) like i can accept all her flaws, because i have mine, it will be a long distant relationship but im able to accept that... she just able to make me smile all the time even though im 900km away from her... and she has to go back to Taiwan every summer. but i really value my friendships... and dont want to ruin it.. should i just give up?
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[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
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06-20-2017, 09:56 AM
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#22903 | God of Unce
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Does your bro know? If he does..
Let the beta games begin, may the best of bros win the lady.
inb4 FZ'd again.
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06-20-2017, 10:10 AM
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#22904 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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We kinda already confirmed our feelings while I went to visit her, so feelings are there, I just couldn't full comit on asking her if she would like to date me, because I know one of my best friend has a really big thing for her...
And no he doesn't know yet... It would break him if he knew, because I'm the only one that he can openly talk to about feelings....
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 11:54 AM
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#22905 | うに
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Originally Posted by TOS'd The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS. | |
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06-20-2017, 11:58 AM
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#22906 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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If your best friend has a really big crush on her and doesn't do anything about it, then that's his own damn fault.
Just because someone knows another person longer doesn't mean that they know them best.
I don't get the mentality of "If I can't have her, no one can" mentality. That's fuckin' selfish and god damn childish.
Wanna be a bro? Talk to him about it and if he's ok with it, go for it. It'd be the grown up thing to do. If he can't handle you going for her crush, maybe he should have done something about it sooner. You want something? Try and get it. Don't mope around and stop others from getting it. How old are you fuckers? 12? Jesus.
If your friend is making less money than you and he's unhappy about it, should you quit your job and find a lower paying one?
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06-20-2017, 12:01 PM
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#22907 | God of Unce
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If it's over a fuckin' year, his lost.
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06-20-2017, 12:02 PM
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#22908 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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^^^ actually nevermind, I know Evo's god damn old enough to be nearly in jail after hitting it up with a LG. Kid in a man's body.
Fuckin' do what you need to do Evo. God damn it. Stop being so god damn quasi philosophical.
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06-20-2017, 12:36 PM
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#22909 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Lol this isn't about the lg, but I think I know what needs to be done.
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 12:40 PM
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#22910 | God of Unce
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hey guh, want sum fuk?
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06-20-2017, 01:14 PM
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#22911 | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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Made a choice and hoping it's the right one...
Everything seems to be falling into place.
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06-20-2017, 01:40 PM
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#22912 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by EvoLove Lol this isn't about the lg, but I think I know what needs to be done. | That wasn't my point. My point was that you're a grown ass man but with the mentality of a 12 year old with no self-control.
Getting dronk as fock won't help you, beating around the bush won't help you, making excuses won't help you, lying won't help you. You burn that plush bear yet?
Man the fuck up and if you want something do what you need (legally) to get it. Your buddy didn't put a ring on it and had he wanted it bad enough, he would have gone for it and either got shot down or be livin' it up with her. If he can't do either, I'm sorry, but you can't help him with that, only he can help himself. It just goes back to the whole job thing, it's up to him to try and get a better job and better his situation; you can feel bad for him and talk it out, but at the end of the day, if he ain't gonna do it, it's not right that he stops you from trying.
You, pussy-footing around, ain't helping him and it ain't helping yourself. Eventually she's gonna need to be with *someone*. Would you rather it be one of you two guys or someone else you don't know.
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06-20-2017, 01:53 PM
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#22913 | God of Unce
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Sounds like a K Drama.
Shiba Friendzone. Directed by ZN6
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06-20-2017, 01:54 PM
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#22914 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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PS, Personally, I think what you're doing now is a dick move already.
You know he is crushing on her, then you go share your feelings with her anyways. You've already stabbed him in the back. You know all this yet you've only come to question the commitment after that. So, I guess that kinda gives away the character you are...
I think that might be the root of your problem, no follow through and you become a buzz kill after you have to think about it then not commit.
Welcome to FZ part 2
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06-20-2017, 01:55 PM
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#22915 | God of Unce
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06-20-2017, 02:05 PM
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#22916 | Zombie Mod
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Originally Posted by EvoLove I just couldn't full comit on asking her if she would like to date me, because I know one of my best friend has a really big thing for her... | Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)
When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?
Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth.
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06-20-2017, 02:12 PM
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#22917 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by Presto Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)
When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?
Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth. | Will you go out with me, Presto? Lock me in. Harder daddy....
scratch that last one please.
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06-20-2017, 02:36 PM
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#22918 | Zombie Mod
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The secret is child-safety locks
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06-20-2017, 03:24 PM
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#22919 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by Presto Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)
When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?
Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth. | she doesn't live in the lower mainland, she moved to Edmonton. im in pg for school
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 03:31 PM
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#22920 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by ZN6 PS, Personally, I think what you're doing now is a dick move already.
You know he is crushing on her, then you go share your feelings with her anyways. You've already stabbed him in the back. You know all this yet you've only come to question the commitment after that. So, I guess that kinda gives away the character you are...
I think that might be the root of your problem, no follow through and you become a buzz kill after you have to think about it then not commit.
Welcome to FZ part 2 | ehh, things happened while i was visiting her, and one thing lead to another... i wasn't intending on doing anything. But i did
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 04:05 PM
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#22921 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by EvoLove i want to be with her but i also dont want to ruin my brohood with him... but i really value my friendships... and dont want to ruin it.. should i just give up? | Don't trust Evo with a butter knife, he'll still stab you in the back with it. |
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06-20-2017, 04:25 PM
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#22922 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by ZN6 Don't trust Evo with a butter knife, he'll still stab you in the back with it. | we're both thinking if we should pretend nothing happened. It seems like she doesn't really want to do that. but what do i know...
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 04:28 PM
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#22923 | God of Unce
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Think with your brain not your dick?
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06-20-2017, 05:05 PM
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#22924 | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by Armind Think with your brain not your dick? | yah im just going to have a talk with him
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum 93 honda civic si (RIP)
2010 Evolution X (RIP)
2000 GMC Yukon XL SLT (RIP)
2003 GMC Yukon XL Denali (Overland build
2019 Kawasaki Ex 400(Summer Daily)
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06-20-2017, 11:23 PM
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#22925 | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon
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Last yr I was dry as shit; this yr, got 3 girls on the go even on the online dating scene. Man i really how at least one of them would work out.
Oh well, take it with a grain of salt, let's see how this plays out. Let the summer begin.
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