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Akinari 12-12-2017 01:25 AM

Jesus I forgot how much it hurt to stub your toe super hard on a door frame.

Mr.HappySilp 12-12-2017 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by MSREE (Post 8876985)
Yeah lol when we first started dating he told me he loves the gym he works at cuz of all the hot asian girls and thats something ive never forgotten lol.
This Joanna character is one of those tiny asians lol.

Ive been feeling pretty underappreciated lately from small things he does that just adds up and on friday, i burst into tears while getting ready for work just because of pure frustration. Communication is very hard. He has a big ego and thinks he does nothing wrong...so its hard for me to talk to him when im feeling something. He forced me to go shopping on Friday I guess to try and ease his guilt about making me cry.

Planning on getting ready and going downtown to look at christmas lights or something by myself. Maybe ill feel more grounded:(

Big ego is hard to change. Some people just learn to cope with it.

Who knows maybe he is doing all these smalls things to make you mad on purpose. Maybe he is planning something big for you for Chirstmas.

But hey if things doesn't work out. Is not so bad to be alone. At least you can do what you want and doesn't have to worry about his ego anymore.

BIC_BAWS 12-13-2017 11:37 AM

Jesus.. why did I buy a BMW. I went into it knowing it was going to be a 10K (USD) car, ie. buy it for 2k, fix it for 8k. But goddamn, didn't think that was going to be true.

UnknownJinX 12-13-2017 12:34 PM

^Hence why a lot of people say lease a German, buy a Japanese.

Fafine 12-13-2017 12:54 PM

Eh it's an e46. Everything still simple to work on.
What's wrong with it now?

coneZONE 12-13-2017 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8877308)
Jesus I forgot how much it hurt to stub your toe super hard on a door frame.

I don't want to remember

JSALES 12-13-2017 11:13 PM

Received my first F grade in university. Pretty bummed and choked. Fuck.

UnknownJinX 12-13-2017 11:25 PM

You will be fine.

Failing in uni courses is pretty acceptable IMO. Not nearly as embarrassing as failing high-school courses.

MSREE 12-14-2017 03:03 AM

Frank Castle is the man of my dreams.
Damn you Marvel.

FOREVER 12-14-2017 04:31 PM

I confessed to a girl today, and I asked her what she thought about that. She wasn't able to give me a "yes" or "no," but an "I don't know."

She said that she feels that she likes me back sometimes and sometimes she doesnt. (I felt the same lately.)

The thing bothering me right now is, I'm not even phased.. We continued our cuddling??

#confused

dapperfied 12-14-2017 05:21 PM

#FWB

Euro7r 12-14-2017 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 8877682)
Received my first F grade in university. Pretty bummed and choked. Fuck.

Grades don't mean shit these days. I wouldn't let this bother you.

If it makes you feel any better, I failed the same course 2 twice LOL.

I knew many people I went to school with that didn't do well in school. Fast forward like 10 years later, all working in decent careers.

6793026 12-15-2017 05:17 AM

^ same here; Econ 105 got a C- had to retake to get a C to pass
Econ 305; C-, the D then C.

hindsight, shit happens. Go talk to the prof. I had a prof re-read my essay stating, are you 100% sure my essay was so far off topic to deserve an D. She re-read it and gave me a C

kkthind 12-15-2017 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by MSREE (Post 8876976)
K so what the fuck. I was watching the videos he posted of his work party and even the videos of his coworkers. He seems to be really close to this girl Joanna in all the vids. In the vid he posted shes right beside him.....
He doesnt even record or post vids with me in them........................
After what he put me thru last night, i feel pretty shitty now..

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Originally Posted by TOS'd (Post 8876981)
Are they coworkers?

https://pics.me.me/when-you-go-to-yo...d-16319613.png

MSREE 12-15-2017 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kkthind (Post 8877938)

LOL das me with my hubby. No touchy lol

Mr.HappySilp 12-15-2017 04:36 PM

Meet this girl who just move from Ontario. Seems pretty good so far but she is working 7 days a week till Feb so is hard to spend time together.

Not really sure if I should wait tills he less busy or just go for it.

BIC_BAWS 12-15-2017 08:12 PM

Been a little high strung lately. Not sure if it's cause I'm vaping less, but 100% sure that the idiots in Richmond just piss me off. Since I work in a family business, I have to drive my mother home every night. She insists on working from 9am to 8:30 pm everyday. Don't get me wrong, I'm down to work and the grind is usually great. But sometimes you just know that the marginal utility of you working more, is producing less, than if you had just went home and took a break. Ffs. Had a fight with her about it today, then I just left.

Seems like when I get mad I just tune everything out and lash out at everything. Tho getting home to vape and getting a break from work, definitely helped with being pissed off.

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ZN6 12-16-2017 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS (Post 8878037)
But sometimes you just know that the marginal utility of you working more, is producing less, than if you had just went home and took a break. Ffs.

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:facepalm: That's diminishing return. Marginal utility is the additional satisfaction you get with one more unit of good or service.... I don't think you get any additional satisfaction with one more unit hour of work.

BIC_BAWS 12-16-2017 08:33 AM

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Originally Posted by ZN6 (Post 8878091)
:facepalm: That's diminishing return. Marginal utility is the additional satisfaction you get with one more unit of good or service.... I don't think you get any additional satisfaction with one more unit hour of work.

Fail. I knew it was a parabola, just forgot what it's called LOL

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JSALES 12-16-2017 07:34 PM

One of my friends is really keen on getting a job with me because the wage is pretty good but I don't want to mix friends and work together, am I right for thinking this or am I just an asshole?

BIC_BAWS 12-16-2017 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 8878181)
One of my friends is really keen on getting a job with me because the wage is pretty good but I don't want to mix friends and work together, am I right for thinking this or am I just an asshole?

You're right for thinking this. Working with friends gets stressful. As I've mentioned previously in this thread, the lesson learned is to, never hire your friends.

Even if you aren't doing the hiring, chances are you'll be in a higher supervisory position than him. Even if you're not, he's the newbie, so you'll end up telling him what to do. Either way, mixing friends with work just leads to unnecessary stress.

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Euro7r 12-16-2017 11:12 PM

Started chatting with this girl during the afternoon, small talk, only few short messages. Then I got to the point to ask her out to meet in person. Replies me "hehe perhaps but it will be in 2018"....not idea what that supposed to mean. Maybe she has vacation plans for Christmas...

6793026 12-17-2017 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 8878181)
One of my friends is really keen on getting a job with me because the wage is pretty good but I don't want to mix friends and work together, am I right for thinking this or am I just an asshole?

never ever ever ever work with friends.... it does NOT mix... don't do it....

No money is worth friendship.

JSALES 12-17-2017 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS (Post 8878185)
You're right for thinking this. Working with friends gets stressful. As I've mentioned previously in this thread, the lesson learned is to, never hire your friends.

Even if you aren't doing the hiring, chances are you'll be in a higher supervisory position than him. Even if you're not, he's the newbie, so you'll end up telling him what to do. Either way, mixing friends with work just leads to unnecessary stress.

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Originally Posted by 6793026 (Post 8878223)
never ever ever ever work with friends.... it does NOT mix... don't do it....

No money is worth friendship.

Don't think I can do much about it now, friend is probably going to apply since there is an opening even though I haven't mentioned anything

Euro7r 12-17-2017 06:48 PM

I don't even know if this girl is just super shy or conservative. I say one thing, she replies one thing......Can't even gauge her interest level. Playing low profile?

She said she is open to coffee/dessert in 2018 LOL.


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