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Old 12-17-2017, 10:21 PM   #23701
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I don't even know if this girl is just super shy or conservative. I say one thing, she replies one thing......Can't even gauge her interest level. Playing low profile?

She said she is open to coffee/dessert in 2018 LOL.
Fucking games some bitches play. They deserve 0 attention, just wanna be chased after.

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Old 12-17-2017, 11:41 PM   #23702
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never ever ever ever work with friends.... it does NOT mix... don't do it....

No money is worth friendship.
What about making friends with coworkers and doing things outside of work?
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Old 12-17-2017, 11:45 PM   #23703
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What about making friends with coworkers and doing things outside of work?
But in that case, the relationship is already established as work-friends. Even if you become really good friends, you both understand that in the work place you have to make tough decisions that can affect one another. In this case, most co-workers who become friends, understand that things that happen at work isn't personal.

Contrasting this, friends first then co-workers, it can make it hard to establish the professional norms.

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Old 12-17-2017, 11:53 PM   #23704
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Fucking games some bitches play. They deserve 0 attention, just wanna be chased after.
Gonna not reply anymore. Annoyed with her one sentence replies.
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Old 12-18-2017, 12:03 AM   #23705
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Gonna not reply anymore. Annoyed with her one sentence replies.
Just message her in 2018, and be like, "so about that date"

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Or send her a dick pic, and see what happens
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Old 12-18-2017, 01:45 AM   #23707
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Old 12-18-2017, 06:39 AM   #23708
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Old 12-18-2017, 12:59 PM   #23709
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Became a dad about a week ago. Wife had C section, unable to be as mobile as regular delivery. The added workload I do at home, but it is tiring as hell. Lack of sleep sucks. All that is worthwhile holding our baby and watch him sleep in my arms after a bottle of milk.
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Old 12-18-2017, 01:28 PM   #23710
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Old 12-18-2017, 08:31 PM   #23711
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Congrats on being a new father! Exciting changes in life.
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Old 12-20-2017, 02:45 AM   #23712
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Old 12-20-2017, 10:32 PM   #23713
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Managed to negotiate up a brutal co-op work evaluation into something more presentable. Silver lining in the cloud is that the other supervisor is happy to write me reference letters.

Lots of job applying outside of the system to do in the next two weeks.
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Old 12-21-2017, 03:16 AM   #23714
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Beginning to realize that I’m actually not really content with anything in my life right now. Not happy about my relationship, work could be better, my finances are meh, relationship with family is decent at best, my closest friends whom I thought I was close with are seemingly drifting away, I want my Element back but I’m stuck with a Corolla. It’s getting increasingly difficult to sleep at night when there’s a million thoughts swirling around.
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Old 12-21-2017, 05:29 PM   #23715
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Expectation is resentment waiting to happen. This really is some bullshit trying to get my head out of the gutter.
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Old 12-22-2017, 08:51 AM   #23716
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Any expectation is basically a premeditated resentment. Don't have any and you'll never be disappointed. Sounds cynical but it works.
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Old 12-22-2017, 01:37 PM   #23717
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Any expectation is basically a premeditated resentment. Don't have any and you'll never be disappointed. Sounds cynical but it works.
Exactly, have expectations for the things you can control. If you can't control it don't stress about it.

I like this phrasing: “Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.” Malachy McCourt
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Old 12-22-2017, 01:43 PM   #23718
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Beginning to realize that I’m actually not really content with anything in my life right now. Not happy about my relationship, work could be better, my finances are meh, relationship with family is decent at best, my closest friends whom I thought I was close with are seemingly drifting away, I want my Element back but I’m stuck with a Corolla. It’s getting increasingly difficult to sleep at night when there’s a million thoughts swirling around.
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Exactly, have expectations for the things you can control. If you can't control it don't stress about it.
If you are referring to Akinari's situation, it sounds to me like everything he talked about is more or less within his control at least to a certain extent?
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What is happiness without sadness?

What is excitement without apathy?

What is elation without misery?

Experiencing both is what gives life a 3D perspective, the big picture, the grand scheme. When things are not going our way, we find ways to correct the trajectory. Life would be boring if everything always went our way. Finding new challenges whether intentional or unintentional are what gives us the strength to pursue new heights of our existence. If we succeed in completing those challenges, we can then pass on our wisdom to the next generation.

Why am I rambling here? Because tis the season for Egg Nog & Rum. YES, I will have another

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Old 12-23-2017, 04:33 PM   #23720
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The last working day before Christmas in the automotive industry is supposed to be a day to relax and fuck around. LOL NOPE, fucking manager sets the house on fire with shitty bookings.
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Old 12-24-2017, 12:39 PM   #23721
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i just wanted to go out for NYE...y u do dis to me work , no one likes spending it driving drunk people around LOL
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lol fucking girls. Complains I don't text her yet only responds with emoji's.

No thanks, Ill respond when you generate some conversation.
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Thought cuffing season was some stupid fad like "Mans not Hot" or whatever bs those hypebeasts are trending - but it turns out cuffing season a real thing LMAO rip
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