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What did I say? What did I put out as the obvious choice? What? 21 is young as fuck. Forget about dating for now and enjoy your fucking life. Y U NO SHRED WITH BROS?! Girls will come when you are older and more distinguished. I wish someone told me that sooner. But I am telling you now. You know what chicks dig? Life experience and stories you can share with them. Not fuck bois going clubbing. If you need a girl in your life to make you happy, you are doing life wrong. A girl should add to your life, not to get you a life. Vice versa, you should pride your girl and make her feel like a fucking queen; not a fucking princess. |
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Alot of people think it's just a load of shit, but you'll later realize that no matter how hard you tried, things never quite worked out with anyone (currently). There's always some sort of lesson to be learned from every single situation that life throws your way. Take what you can away from it now and remember it because it'll only benefit you in the future. Enjoy being single while you can because life can change in the blink of an eye. Everyone has a set path in life - your time just hasn't come yet. Trust your intuition. If you're ever out and just have a strong urge to talk to someone, do it. Never leave thinking "what if" That's all I've got. |
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Medication brain. I was eating this stuffed tortellini my hubby bought, thinking "why does he even like tortellini? Its kinda hard." So i added pasta sauce and microwaved for a few minutes and continued to eat it. About 7 minutes in, i see the tupperware my hubs actually made for me with cooked tortellini and beef on the bottom shelf of my fridge. :rukidding::fulloffuck: |
Got together with a new girl who is 5.5 years younger after a less than friendly breakup. A bit early to tell if values match but so far all the tick boxes are being checked off systematically. |
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So I got offered/landed two new job offers on top of my full time job: 1. Project Manager to launch a new building -> FT Property Manager in a year 2. Project Manager to launch a new business as Cannabis LP I planned to go back to school next Sept, to hopefully do my BBA (1 year) or take another accounting diploma (1-2yr) -> BTech:Account (1 yr) -> CPA (2-3 years). I always wanted my bach, for the wrong reasons, just to say im better than a sauder grad, bc that clients/employers will think you know your shit better than a diploma student, and I can get my CPA Issue? Well I planned to go back, but if I do, I lose all three things. But if I don't go back to school, then I can't/delay get(ting) CPA, which I want. What do you guys think? Am I stupid for even considering school, when I have the jobs that I've always wanted? |
FT property manager in a yr is key. Not sure the Cannabis role will be a huge thing (long term) nor is it a huge resume booster. just my 2 cents school u can do later; i made it this far without ever looking at my schooling (unless u're a doctor, engineer etc). Sometimes roles don't come too often. |
To add more detail, getting my CPA is important, so that I can take over the family business (current ft job), and moreover so my mother can finally take a break after working non stop for the past 10 years. If I were to take the FT Property Manager role, I'd have to leave the family business, or well at most, take on less responsibilities and clients. That and not go back to school Right now, I'm not in school, so I can maintain my current FT job AND work on both projects (new building + new business). In terms of #2, it's more of a contracted project mgmt job, as it's to complete business plan + application, and manage the launch as a Licensed Producer of Cannabis. The pros that I can clearly see is the opportunity to get some project management experience, and more consulting experience. Both of which I like more and would rather do over accounting. BUT like I said above, I'm only doing accounting so my mother can relax. Many people tell me that I should just do what I want to do, and not let my parents decide my career for me. But I supposed this is more of my choice, than something that they're hardselling. |
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EDIT: just went through the last three pages of this thread and wow, RS life advice 101. |
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Your mom will still a) hound over you even if you take over the business b) she won't let go. Working non-stop for 10yrs is a true indicator. I feel like "complete business plan + application, and manage the launch as a Licensed Producer of Cannabis. " is just fluff. That's what every employer says to their potential employee and load and behold, jobs aren't 100% of what the promised. Let us know how it turns out. You got options, just don't ever regret what you choose and make the best out of every situation is key! |
Slept 4 hours last night, up for 20 hours right now and decided to to speak it out :fullofwin: My older brother: Repeated half of grade 12, dropped out of post-secondary twice, went through odd jobs here and there but slowly built up skill sets. Landed fresh job back in 2008 through a less than honest resume and has been employed there since. Current: Has townhouse but soon-to-be detached home, a then new (2012) GTi and a then new (2017) Fusion Sport. Has 2 young kids and wife recently lost her job but he can still support all four of them till she gets a new job. He recently turned down multiple offers for a $100k+ a year job promotion, deciding he will take it when his kids are older and the offer comes around again. Me: Graduated with B average from grade 12 Graduated twice from post secondary (2 diplomas) while working at least 30 hours a week at a grocery store. Present: Rents an apartment and drives a 20 year old car. Makes livable wage but savings are minimal by end of month. Oh life, you taught me so well! Sometimes when I have nice dreams while asleep, I like to think they are life's way of apologizing to me. |
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Don't be so hard on yourself. It's all timing - everything is timing. My mother: made like 20-40k a year with 4 kids, single mother doesn't speak english, does not have local connections - immigrant. A great planner and saver she is. Able to buy a 3100 sqft Vancouver home. Me: born and raised in Vancouver. Young. Millennial. Making 100k. Nowhere near buying a detached home. That's a far-fetched goal. I'm not that bad at saving either. It's all timing buddy. |
Wew the ghosting game is strong lately. Back and forth for a couple days, disappear, repeat. |
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come on too strong? nothing interesting to talk about? well, you're better off without them anyways, move on and put a stronger foot forward next time. like, don't let the conversation go on too long before asking the person out for like a lunch or coffee or something. that will show that you have a bit of courage and balls rather than playing text tennis. |
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Friend applied at my company and put me down as a reference without my consent and now has an interview, ugh. |
That's a dick move. |
Yeah, this person was so keen on getting a job with me that I don't think they even applied anywhere else, just dead set on working with my company because of the salary |
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