Hi SIO,

How have you been? It's been awhile since we last spoke.

Regards,

TOS'd

I was struggling with a decision earlier this week. Buy my dream car or invest the money. The choice is clear now: Send my family (parents + brother) to Hong Kong to see my grandparents, the M3 can wait.

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That's a big gift, good on you for sending them to HK. I have the same thoughts as well. Buy a really fun car that won't depreciate that much, but lose out on the market gains on $22k. I think if I can sell my car I'll yolo it.

Well I know my mom is super close with her dad (my grandpa) and I know she doesn't have money to pay for a trip. We locked up most of our money in a private placement. Grandpa recently got diagnosed with another brain tumor, so it would only be right if I could at least send mom to HK to spend time with him.

It's really hard not to be selfish. Could get an m3.. I found a good one too.

^Materialistic toys come and go, can always work and make money to buy it later on.

One of my biggest regrets in my life was not being able to spend as much time as I should have when I was younger with grandparents before they passed away. I worked a lot and at the end of it and reflecting back, money cannot buy family time.

Work-home-work-home-work-home-work-home. Doing other shit? Need sleep just to get back together for the next work week.

I feel you was working 7 days a week for awhile decided to take the day off and go for a nice drive

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There is nothing wrong with FWB, as long as both of you are aware of the nature of the relationship, and what you're getting into.

You're not cut out for FWB. More suited for FWOB (friends without benefits).

Life's too short to not do what you like.

Started my career earlier this year and I know I should save up for a house. But being 25 and having never owned a new car, I think I will buy a Civic Type R next year. I have enough saved up, plus the trade-in value on my current car, that my monthly payments will be low enough that I can still save on the side for a down payment.

Several years ago now, my ex made me sell my manual "fun" car and told me to get an automatic car, which is why I bought my TSX. Even at the dealership I was eyeing a 2012 Civic Si with the 6-speed but she said flat-out "no". We broke up soon after that, as I learned what a controlling bitch she was.

Ever since then I've wanted to get back into a fun manual car. Now that the money is there, I figure I should get it out of my system before the current GF wants to get married and have kids..... time flies...

LOL, if a girl doesn't like a fun car then she can GTFO and walk/take the shitty buses in Victoria.

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/d0/7a/b0/d...-car-memes.jpg

bruh....forget women,a bitch thinks she could give me the best handjob,nobody knows my dick better than my own hand. :alone:



PogChamp hit that shit,Don't be no Action Jackson this summer.

as Stiffler would say "Soon you're gonna be having to pay for these good quality women in you're 50s " :troll:

We havnt talked in a while, it was nice talking to you.. You have a bf now but i dont feel bad... Im actually happy for you. You found someone that you can truly love and open up to. Idk how im suppose to feel but congratulations im truly happy for you.

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I've moved on, i don't feel anything. We ran in to each other had a coffee and talked for a bit like the way we did before we started seeing each other. Its much better the way things are right now, stress free not needing to question if we would make it or not.:awwyeah: My friends said i should of resented her but who needs that kind of negativity in their life.

Note to self: never take girls under 21 seriously :concentrate:

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doing it for the memes tho

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I love/hate that RS has my life on it. It makes an okay journal, but it also makes me feel old because I've been a member for almost half my life. It looks like you asked me this question, previously:

Now, I'm 2 months from 40, and she is a month away from 30 (Which, I try to never remind her).


Her mom and her family didn't like the idea of the age gap. There was no discussion with the mother, but there was suspicions of what we were up to. The situation worked itself out after we got engaged, and they knew I wasn't going anywhere. Since I'm kind of immature, the age gap worked out for us. We also discussed long-term future plans, and decided our goals lined up to team up until the end.

jokes on the family, thats what people like nowadays

guy older than girl... by alot

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