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ilovebacon 12-16-2018 05:54 PM

Would you guys report an employer that fired you because you discussed how he keeps gratuities from employees, and how we don't get paid when we stay in over work hours to close down properly?

Most of my shift, I stayed in 5- 10mins, because we don't have enough employees and during work hours it can get busy, which prevents closing down on time.

We only get paid for our time if I was closing the facility and it took longer than 15 min.

This has been boggling my mind because I fear that future employees who work their asses off for this guy will go through what I did and don't get tips.

What would you do?


Got hired and 6 months from now, I still haven't received a dime of gratuities.
Also, a colleague told me that a customer gave her tips, but she was being too humble and went to the employer. The employer then kept that tip from her. She is now leaving the organization.

Mr.Money 12-16-2018 07:05 PM

take it up and show what you can do with your time to the boss that way,i would.

yray 12-17-2018 12:50 PM

ESB his ass

you got fired so who cares, get all your coworkers and build up a case

Energy 12-17-2018 02:08 PM

Sue that employer. PM me if you want the contact of a really good employment lawyer.

Presto 12-17-2018 05:44 PM

I get so sick of being in family photos that by the 6th shot, I'm making faces or striking at stupid pose. You can see the transition of my wife telling me to behave because my face is contorted while making eye contact with her.

PK-EK 12-19-2018 09:01 AM

at 26.75 years old I bought my first "grown up car"

2007 Honda Ridgeline

shit is 2 different colors, but its the most grown up vehicle i've ever owned and intended to keep

:D

Lets go pick up some soccer moms in it this weekend!

mb_ 12-24-2018 12:05 AM

Seems like taking the high road lately has led to me being burned lol

PK-EK 01-17-2019 09:44 AM

It's 2AM in Hongkong at the moment. I can't sleep.

If you guys know me well enough. You'll know about the girl that started it all for me. The girl I fell in love with 8 years ago but never told her how I felt.

I met up with her on my trip to HK.
It was the most perfect day.
Picked her up after work. Went for dinner. Movie afterwards. Dropped her off at home and that was the night. It was perfect.
It was exactly how we use to be 8 years ago.

But it's a shame we are not the same people anymore.
And it's a shame she isn't willing to pick things up where they were left off.
Too much has happened in these last 8 years. Things that we simply cannot just wipe away.
Romanticly sad, yet beautiful.

TOS'd 01-17-2019 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8936276)
It's 2AM in Hongkong at the moment. I can't sleep.

If you guys know me well enough. You'll know about the girl that started it all for me. The girl I fell in love with 8 years ago but never told her how I felt.

I met up with her on my trip to HK.
It was the most perfect day.
Picked her up after work. Went for dinner. Movie afterwards. Dropped her off at home and that was the night. It was perfect.
It was exactly how we use to be 8 years ago.

But it's a shame we are not the same people anymore.
And it's a shame she isn't willing to pick things up where they were left off.
Too much has happened in these last 8 years. Things that we simply cannot just wipe away.
Romanticly sad, yet beautiful.

I've seen this Asian drama before. So beautiful but sad. :tears:

BIC_BAWS 01-17-2019 11:39 AM

Last three days have been pretty rough. Over the course of six years, I've identified one of my core problems. Now, I've finally accepted it and allowed for more dialogue for me to grow past it. Many of you have heard of the Subtle Asian movement, inspired by Crazy Rich Asians and what not. This movement gave me courage to speak to my mom about Asian issues, such as the lack of affection from my dad. This made me think he wasn't proud of me/cared for me, which affected my other relationships, because I thought I didn't deserve being loved.

I'm happy to tell you guys that I'm exclusively seeing right now, who despite, not being as attractive as my ego would like. She's 10/10 wholesome and makes me really happy. I don't want to call her my girlfriend, cause that just seems a little bit too quick. But hell - the last week we've been through a lot. And after the above realization, I let myself want to commit to her.

On another note, I also dumped like two other girls in the past couple of days. One in Sacramento, she was gonna fly up to see me. Another in New Zealand - but that would have never worked out. The NZ one sucks, we enjoy each other's company. While we are interested in each other and want something, I have to face reality. Neither of us want to LDR nor have plans to move to NZ/Canada.

PK-EK 01-18-2019 07:06 AM

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Mr.HappySilp 01-18-2019 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BIC_BAWS (Post 8936292)
Last three days have been pretty rough. Over the course of six years, I've identified one of my core problems. Now, I've finally accepted it and allowed for more dialogue for me to grow past it. Many of you have heard of the Subtle Asian movement, inspired by Crazy Rich Asians and what not. This movement gave me courage to speak to my mom about Asian issues, such as the lack of affection from my dad. This made me think he wasn't proud of me/cared for me, which affected my other relationships, because I thought I didn't deserve being loved.

I'm happy to tell you guys that I'm exclusively seeing right now, who despite, not being as attractive as my ego would like. She's 10/10 wholesome and makes me really happy. I don't want to call her my girlfriend, cause that just seems a little bit too quick. But hell - the last week we've been through a lot. And after the above realization, I let myself want to commit to her.

On another note, I also dumped like two other girls in the past couple of days. One in Sacramento, she was gonna fly up to see me. Another in New Zealand - but that would have never worked out. The NZ one sucks, we enjoy each other's company. While we are interested in each other and want something, I have to face reality. Neither of us want to LDR nor have plans to move to NZ/Canada.

Is this Joe_45?
Lol if you think a girl isn't good enough for you then why are you still dating her. You date someone because you want to spend time and be with her even though she might have flaws. From the sound of it you two most likely won't work out.

BIC_BAWS 01-18-2019 09:41 AM

No I want the reality check LMFAO. That's what I have you guys for, to be critical. But I'm content for once. For once in my life I'm not convincing someone else that I'm worth it.

It's some weird situation. And honestly, even if it doesn't work out. It's worth a try. LMFAO.

Can confirm they women, unless you can live stream someone else's pussy LMFAO.

Honestly, a realization was that maybe it's been so difficult for me to find happiness in anything because of my ego. And if I can drop my ego, through this chick, then maybe for once in my life I'll be happy.

BIC_BAWS 01-18-2019 09:50 AM

Re: Asian break out moments

I've had them since I was 10 to 17. I was a rebellious kid. Now? My mom's my best friend. So suck on that PK.

I've been reflecting daily on my family issues for a long long time. This break out you refer to, that you lost your shit? Well I was on suicide watch at 16. So no, you're wrong. This is just another step of having open communication with my family - not the first step.

This specific scenario is just my final realization that my mom is my best friend LOL. This specific scenario allowed me to realize that the dialogue I've been telling my whole life was wrong.

Further edit: I appreciate PK for giving me a reality check tho. It might not be what I want to hear, but it's definitely considered. Not gonna drop you with that duly noted Bs.

Aria 01-18-2019 01:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8931298)
Slowly falling for MissVancouverPiggy on IG.
I bet you she's on RS

Everything you say you hate, you love. Everything you say you love, you hate.

I don't buy it.

Mr.HappySilp 01-18-2019 02:09 PM

^^ who is MissVancouverPiggy

Fafine 01-18-2019 02:15 PM

what is asian break out

PK-EK 01-18-2019 07:06 PM

IG: MissVancouverPiggy

I also recently found out she works at an automotive dealership. So she must be on Revscene

tiger_handheld 01-19-2019 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8936478)
IG: MissVancouverPiggy

I also recently found out she works at an automotive dealership. So she must be on Revscene

See you are into the RBF ABG 36DD types. GL.

TOS'd 01-19-2019 07:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tiger_handheld (Post 8936538)
See you are into the RBF ABG 36DD types. GL.

Those are the best.

BeeBeeAhn 01-23-2019 07:29 PM

Haven't logged in to rs in over a year and y'all still emo af LOL

Jmac 01-23-2019 07:37 PM

Obviously

PK-EK 01-24-2019 08:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BeeBeeAhn (Post 8937111)
Haven't logged in to rs in over a year and y'all still emo af LOL

are you a married C-lai with a Toyota Sienna now?
driving the kids to Chinese School on sunday

Mr.Money 01-24-2019 12:26 PM

Whats wrong with having a family?.....That's how you know she puts out :troll:

Gerbs 01-24-2019 01:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8936478)
IG: MissVancouverPiggy

I also recently found out she works at an automotive dealership. So she must be on Revscene

She's thicccc like a drumstick


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