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04-08-2009, 03:04 PM
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#26 | Banned (ABWS)
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what was the present that the soulcrushed guy gave you?
hope it wasn't something really pricey..
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04-08-2009, 03:07 PM
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#27 | 無敵
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Creepy guys become Stalker guys.
Trying to be nice almost never ever works. Trust me.
They will stalk and stalk and lie to people around you to get what they want.
Tell him off now.. =/
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04-08-2009, 03:15 PM
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#28 | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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Originally Posted by HollyZ32 hahah who even knows ...lol
soul crusher | you should change your screen name to soul crusher, it sounds cool
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04-08-2009, 03:27 PM
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#29 | VLS Pet Forum Mod
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I have known enough guys like this. All I have to say is walk away. It doesn't make you a bitch for not wanting to be involved with someone who doesn't want to respect your decisions. You plainly told him that your relationship with him was a friendship. Unfortunately though people like him take any inkling of kindness as evidence of their belief of the relationship.
Be honest and just let him know that you can not be around with him not respecting your stipulations on the relationship.
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04-08-2009, 04:32 PM
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#30 | My homepage has been set to RS
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i cant even understand what that was supposed to say. cliffs or translation?
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04-08-2009, 05:04 PM
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#31 | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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haha. SOUL CRUSHER! Hilarious!
Yeah, even if you were looking for a relationship, he ain't the one. Cause he acts weird.
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04-08-2009, 05:13 PM
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#32 | The RS Freebie guru
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Two words: Restraining order
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04-08-2009, 06:55 PM
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#33 | My dinner reheated before my turbo spooled
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Originally Posted by InvisibleSoul Two words: Restraining order |
couldnt agree more. sounds like hes obsessed with you. you know, the type that has his walls in his room filled with your pics.
on a side note.. just show him your creepy pie.. maybe that'll scare him off |
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04-08-2009, 07:19 PM
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#34 | HELP ME PLS!!!
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nonono
if he's really crazy about you...tell him to prove his love by jumping out of a 10story window. tell him you believe that love hurts, and if he truly loves ya, he'll endure the small pain to get that sweet reward.
If he doesnt, then you can say ''well...dont say i didnt give u a chance''
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04-08-2009, 07:41 PM
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#35 | My dinner reheated before my turbo spooled
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hahaha figures ud say somethin along those lines chandler :P
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04-08-2009, 08:23 PM
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#36 | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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Wow, the beginnings of a psycho. The next gift he'll place under your car might be a bomb. Good luck!
"If I can't have you, no one will!" BBOOOOOOOMMM....lol
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04-08-2009, 10:11 PM
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#37 | S-S-S-SOUL CRUSHER
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hahahaha oh my gosh guys way to creepy me out about it ahahah!!!!!!! now im not gonna be able to sleep tonight hahaha
i dont thiunk i will go as far as changing my car or my number hahahahaha
but cant i just block his number?
and the present that i found under my car was this one shirt that ireally really liked but could not aford to buy and i got off work like i said and there was a note on my windshield that told me to look under my car and SHAZM
there it was
He always leaves messages on my facebook to like if i dont answer him he will find anyway to talk to me its so creepy!!!
and he knows were i work its just weird!!!!!!
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04-08-2009, 11:13 PM
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#38 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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str8 my friend had a girl that was crazy obsess for him, she called him at 4am n told him to go outside cause she left a letter and he peeked outside and all he saw was a piece of paper and he opened his door and picked it up but then the bitch came out of no where and jumped on his back. LOL the fucking scary part the door is at the top of like maybe 6-8 steps and she just jumped onto him outta no where. but yeah he threw her off and ran back inside LOL
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04-08-2009, 11:16 PM
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#39 | S-S-S-SOUL CRUSHER
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OMG that is so sketch hahaah
wtf
whats with people why do they have to become such creepy weirdos lol
i remeber one time
me and creepy guy were gonna hang out and i was upstairs in my house so i did not see him get to my house and like i came down stairs and look out my window ...and there he was ...cleaning the tires on my Z hahah wtf lol
he could have called me to tell me he was there ...but insted he thought he would put tire shine on my wheels lol ?
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04-08-2009, 11:38 PM
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#40 | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
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Originally Posted by k2_alpha you better tell the first guy that you are dating.
be a bitch if you have to.
a creeper can turn into a stalker fast. and by the way you are describing his actions, hes not far from turning.
trying not to be a bitch is a very noble cause.
but if not being one is going to cause you harm, then you better start
also, if you are serious about the second guy you are "dating" then you better tell him about this.
could get a lot worse if he finds out from the creeper.
just let him not about it so he isn't surprised | Agree with you 100%, if you don't make your point clear with that 1st guy, it'll just lead to more problems. Be nice about it first and if that's not gettin through then you're just gonna have to be a bitch to him.
It's better to let the 2nd guy know, cause every guy likes a little heads up. We don't like getting blindsided like that.
BTW, how old is this 1st guy?
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04-08-2009, 11:41 PM
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#41 | S-S-S-SOUL CRUSHER
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Well i told the first guy when we first started dating that i only wanted a friendship from him and thats it! i made it pretty damn clear to and he said he understood and thne thats when shirt started getting weird.
i told the boyfriend tonight and he understands he told me do what i gotta do.
and the creepy guy is 19 almost 20 i think
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04-08-2009, 11:44 PM
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#42 | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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Haha, that reminds me of when Bart falls inlove with Reverend Lovejoy's daughter and scrubs the stairs for her
"Poor sucker. It's amazing what some guys will do for a pretty face! Not me, though. Wait till she sees the second- rate job I do on these stairs. "
Haha.
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04-08-2009, 11:54 PM
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#43 | S-S-S-SOUL CRUSHER
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hahah
i was kinda weirded out by it hhaa
i just come outside and then all of a sudden he is standing there putting tire shin on my wheels ol ? i dunno about you guys
but thats kinda weird hahah
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04-09-2009, 12:50 AM
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#44 | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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^umm...wha.. I thought thats what a guy did to court the lady?? I am from the oldschool.
Ain't nothn wrong with tire shine, it shows he likes to take care of his possessions, that includes his lovers. And that he is determined to win your love. His dedication is impregnable, bitch.
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04-09-2009, 01:53 AM
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#45 | Chinese Guy, Swedish Rides
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Originally Posted by SimplyComplex Creepy guys become Stalker guys.
Trying to be nice almost never ever works. Trust me.
They will stalk and stalk and lie to people around you to get what they want.
Tell him off now.. =/ | What she said. Seen it happen to my female friends...not cool. Get tough, get back up.
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04-09-2009, 01:55 AM
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#46 | MoD
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Originally Posted by Aetios ^umm...wha.. I thought thats what a guy did to court the lady?? I am from the oldschool.
Ain't nothn wrong with tire shine, it shows he likes to take care of his possessions, that includes his lovers. And that he is determined to win your love. His dedication is impregnable, bitch. | |
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04-09-2009, 09:54 AM
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#47 | Hypa owned my ass at least once
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Originally Posted by HollyZ32 hahah
i was kinda weirded out by it hhaa
i just come outside and then all of a sudden he is standing there putting tire shin on my wheels ol ? i dunno about you guys
but thats kinda weird hahah | What a loser. The reason why he refuses to listen is because you're probably his only avenue of female companionship and any other opportunities in his life are few and far between.
That's why you see him go ALL OUT when it comes to courting someone despite your say so.
Seriously, I have no respect for people who go this route to obtain a girlfriend. I seriously don't see him shining your tires once a relationship ever develops.
PS,
I wish I was a mod. I'd change your status to "HollyZ32 is the SOUL CRUSHER"
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04-09-2009, 10:01 AM
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#48 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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u should do some disgusting stuff in front of the 1st guy
like pick ur nose, eat like a pig
(like in the movie white chicks) haha
that shall scare him off
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04-09-2009, 10:02 AM
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#49 | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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^^unless he latrall spencer
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04-09-2009, 11:30 AM
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#50 | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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lots of guys would be be like wtf if you said "i don't want a relationship" and then you jump into a relationship. what you actually meant was "i don't want a relationship with you".
either way, he's a fucking creep.
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