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11-08-2009, 04:08 AM
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11-08-2009, 04:23 AM
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#2 | | NOOB, Not Quite a Regular!
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I would personally go about it, if you like them, why not, if you really are curious, try digging into their family background. You never know, it is common for people to have the same last name, there is only few that are unique and a few families have them. I once dated a girl with the same last name and didn't really think too much about it because if you were related eventually someone from the family would find out, ie. they see you or their family recognizes her
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11-08-2009, 04:28 AM
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I wouldn't have thought it would have been an issue at all...
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11-08-2009, 09:47 PM
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11-08-2009, 09:51 PM
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to me, having the same last name is not really an issue either.
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11-08-2009, 10:39 PM
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not an issue..same last name is pretty common..esp. chinese....just make sure you aren't blood related lol
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11-08-2009, 11:04 PM
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shouldn't be a big deal, b/c a lot of last names are really common
ie. mine > nguyen, 40% of viet population according to wikipedia
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11-08-2009, 11:06 PM
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not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P...
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11-08-2009, 11:12 PM
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#9 | | MiX iT Up!
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Originally Posted by TT  not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P... | BINGO.
exactly what i was gonna say.
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11-08-2009, 11:17 PM
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11-09-2009, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by TT not an issue at all...maybe even easier, so you don't need to change anyone's last name after marriage :P... | Yeah I'd go with this response. 
Assuming s/he's not a family member, of course. (you didn't explicitly point this out!)
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11-09-2009, 11:08 AM
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not an issue for me, just a coincidence to like someone that has the same last name as you.
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11-09-2009, 11:52 AM
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If you're worried, do some digging into the family background like canadianaboy suggested... see if your families are from the same village.
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11-09-2009, 02:05 PM
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#14 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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as long as your date's not your long lost sister or cousin or whatever..i think it's fine
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11-09-2009, 05:19 PM
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#15 | | F**K YOUR HEAD
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No biggie, if you're chinese and expected to date someone who's chinese it's not unlikely to hit someone with the same last name. Don't worry about it, no one will think you're bro/sis/cousin/etc. if you have the same last name... unless you're one of those creepy couples that look identical...
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11-09-2009, 05:21 PM
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11-09-2009, 05:43 PM
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#17 | | The RS Freebie guru
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Originally Posted by TOS'd What are your thoughts on this whole thing. Discuss. | I think... this was asked not very long ago... http://www.revscene.net/forums/showthread.php?t=579504 | |
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11-09-2009, 08:09 PM
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Who cares really? Especially for Chinese people.. There are only a few hundred Chinese surnames, for a billion people. There is going to be some overlap 
My wife's sister had the same FIRST name as her BF, in Chinese. That's kind of funny, but not a big deal (since they rarely go by their Chinese names)
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11-09-2009, 09:08 PM
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#19 | | RS controls my life!
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11-10-2009, 11:40 AM
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#20 | | The RS Freebie guru
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11-10-2009, 11:42 AM
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#21 | | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
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not a big deal, but just make sure they aren't distant cousins, haha
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11-10-2009, 12:38 PM
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#22 | | RS controls my life!
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no issue.
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shes the only child? so she get someone with the same last name to retain the same family name =P
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11-10-2009, 05:08 PM
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#23 | | RS controls my life!
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As long as you are ok that 5,000 years ago, your grand(to n power)-parents used to be siblings
In the end we're all distantly related. Don't think of it as incest.
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11-10-2009, 05:23 PM
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#24 | | I'll be good I promise.
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s'all good you're just humping one of you're far cousin!
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11-10-2009, 06:32 PM
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#25 | | The Lone Wanderator
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Whatever, in canada even first cousins are allowed to marry. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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