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09-07-2011, 08:06 PM
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#1 | Official Texas Ambassador
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| [Confidential] How should I break up with her? The following post is from an anonymous member. If they would like to reply to any replies please pm me.
So I've been going out with this girl for about a month or so, and I feel like I'm losing interest in her. Our relationship was kind of rushed, and we didn't get to really know each other, and I don't think we're a good match for each other. I don't want this to drag on and waste our time so I'm planning on breaking up with her. The thing is, her birthday is coming up soon, as well as our anniversary. How should I do this? We're still in high school, so this is fairly new to me...
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09-07-2011, 08:06 PM
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#2 | Official Texas Ambassador
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No flaming in this thread. Keep your responses mature.
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09-07-2011, 08:14 PM
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#3 | I bringith the lowerballerith
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Well it's only a one month anniversary so it doesn't really matter, also like you said, her birthday is fast approaching, so all the more reasons to break up with her now.
Really, there's nothing much to breaking up if it's a one month relationship, just tell her honestly what you are feeling.
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09-07-2011, 08:17 PM
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#4 | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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Originally Posted by guddagudd Well it's only a one month anniversary so it doesn't really matter, also like you said, her birthday is fast approaching, so all the more reasons to break up with her now.
Really, there's nothing much to breaking up if it's a one month relationship, just tell her honestly what you are feeling. | + 1
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09-07-2011, 08:27 PM
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I did a one month relationship before and you will get over it easy. The girl i dumped said she will never be shallow again.... It hurts my heart when I heard those words
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09-07-2011, 11:37 PM
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Thanks for the replies, turns out, she felt it coming so it was kind of a mutual thing. It's all good now I hope.
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09-14-2011, 04:06 PM
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#7 | I am Hook'd on RS
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oh nice.. glad it worked out for you.. i was gonna say just be a gentleman and dont break up with her on her birthday or your anniversary.. do it asap.. or wait till after those events i guess...
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09-14-2011, 04:16 PM
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Break up on the most special days like V-day, anniversary, birthdays, christmas or NYE.
That way she would be so broken she wont be clinging on or pestering you after.
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09-14-2011, 05:51 PM
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Just say you don't think it's going anywhere, or that you're not interested in her really. Better break it to her now than later.
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