Either you're extremely facially unaesthetic, or just socially awkward. Maybe both.

Find a friend or two and go drop in on some co-ed sports. Volleyball, maybe dodgeball? Seasons over but drop ins are always on.

Just doesn't seem like bars are a good place to meet women for you

Meetup.com; heard it's a site where you can find a "hobby" or interest and join the groups and meet new people in Vancouver? Not sure how it is since I heard my friend telling me about it and he said he's met a lot of new people in his group.

Elliot Rodger, is that you?

yeah, i think you need someone that knows you personally, and give you an honest opinion.

like, ask a dude friend that's pretty good with women, and tell him to be honest with you.

cuz there's something obviously wrong.

the best way is to hang around men that are doing what you wanna do. and you can observe and they can teach you and "push" you to do things you would usually be too shy to do.

you're a padawan with no jedi master. you need a master to show you the way. lol.

Usually the girls are more legit on paid dating sites like eharmony or match.com vs the free ones like POF or OKC.

^ that's not true.
what is true is that if you have no game on POF, you will also have no game on match.com or eharmony.