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07-19-2012, 04:00 PM
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#51 | In RS I Trust
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Not really under the same lines but kinda.....
Back in the day my buddy was pounding this chick in the spare room at a small party and I walked in there with my cock in hand hanging out stroking it with a smirk on my face. The look on their face's was the best shit ever I so which I took a picture of the surprised and scared look on both of their faces.
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07-19-2012, 07:22 PM
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#52 | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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Originally Posted by doritos im sorry but, thats pretty fuckin gay. I would never do that with any guy I know. Only in front of my GF | You'd jerk off a guy in front of your gf?
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07-19-2012, 07:55 PM
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#53 | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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I think you or your buddy might be bisexual/homosexual. I would never want another man to touch my penis
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07-20-2012, 10:09 AM
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Thanks for the supporting comments and suggestions guys. El Bastardo especially for banning the a'holes.
The thing is, he doesn't touch me and we don't jerk each other off. I first time he did it and I did it back was just like punching a guy at the arm for fun. I didn't feel anything sexual about it, maybe he did. Now, we've just made a game out of it, like who can shoot farther or jack off the longest or not getting hard for the longest while watching porn and just talking about which girl we'd bang (not together lol).
I've learned enough in school that nobody can be turned gay. It's not a disease or a situation you can get yourself into. There's this thing called the Kinsey Scale and it basically means that on a scale of liking women on one end and guys on the other, people on on that scale. Some might like guys more than girls a little or a lot. Some can be in the middle or just at one end.
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07-20-2012, 10:27 AM
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I'm gonna give you some tough love here...if you know so much about it, why are you asking?
You wanted to know, is this normal? Well, the a'holes as well as those that aren't have given you the answer. The a'holes showed you what reaction you are going to have if people in real life find out the games you play when you hang out with your friends..meaning you may be a 2 on the kinsey scale, but everyone is going to think you are a 7. Even most of the people here have said its not something they currently engage in, or did at your age.
Now, I don't give a fuck what others think, and I started to build that philosophy at your age. I would just really caution you to be careful at school with who finds out.
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07-20-2012, 12:31 PM
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Of all the things to play around with with your buddy, it is out of the norm and a bit strange imo to have games like who can shoot farther or jack off the longest or not getting hard for the longest while watching porn.
But hey, it's cool if you and him are having fun doing it.
Back in HS, we'd have prono night at one of the guys house and we'd have pop, chips and pizza while watching what we rented from Tom's. But it was an unspoken rule that we would keep our eyes on the tv and hands on the food and away from certain places.
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07-20-2012, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted by El Bastardo The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster
Thanks for the supporting comments and suggestions guys. El Bastardo especially for banning the a'holes. The thing is, he doesn't touch me and we don't jerk each other off. I first time he did it and I did it back was just like punching a guy at the arm for fun. I didn't feel anything sexual about it, maybe he did. Now, we've just made a game out of it, like who can shoot farther or jack off the longest or not getting hard for the longest while watching porn and just talking about which girl we'd bang (not together lol).
I've learned enough in school that nobody can be turned gay. It's not a disease or a situation you can get yourself into. There's this thing called the Kinsey Scale and it basically means that on a scale of liking women on one end and guys on the other, people on on that scale. Some might like guys more than girls a little or a lot. Some can be in the middle or just at one end. | sounds pretty fucking gay to me
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07-22-2012, 01:40 AM
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#58 | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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^ my reaction. Watching porn together is cool and all but playing those games seem to but out of the norm
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07-22-2012, 08:24 AM
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Originally Posted by elwell ^ my reaction. Watching porn together is cool and all but playing those games seem to but out of the norm | What is the norm? Society telling you that being gay or having homosexual tendencies or wrong.
Op you're young and need to figure out what you want.
As long as you're not hurting anyone who cares if you masterbate in front of one another or help each other out a little.
If this were two women doing this people would be asking for pics or asking to join in. So I say as long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else do what makes you feel good and don't worry about what anyone may say
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07-23-2012, 02:22 AM
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you guys should totally have a 3+ some since you're already so comfortable with each other lol
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07-23-2012, 03:45 AM
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^ wait until one jizz on another's face...accintentionally (who still has that gif?)
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07-23-2012, 08:36 AM
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they like to see who can shoot farther?
thats wierd bro
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07-23-2012, 12:34 PM
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#63 | I have named my kids VIC and VLS
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Lololol oh fuck
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07-23-2012, 03:26 PM
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i dont see people bashing if it were 2 chicks feeling each other out.
its the mass media out there that makes us think what we think. I would bet if it was turned around and it was cool to jerk each other off, people here would be jerking each other off non-stop.
my 2 cents.
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07-23-2012, 03:47 PM
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FYI for those that didn't read clearly,
there's a difference here, the OP was part of a jerk session, not a jerk each other off session. (admittedly there was some touching)
seriously they are young having fun they are learning shit leave them be.
All this talk of this shit being gay, and oh i wouldn't let anyone touch my junk.. who gives a fuck about that? and who gives a shit what you wouldn't have done if you were in the same situation.
All your doing is making the OP feel ashamed and questioning himself, and at their age do we really need to make him (or anyone for that matter) into the "normal" person who we (or society) thinks and believes he's supposed to be?
might be we all are a little jealous that THEY can be comfortable with who they are, when we don't have the balls (no pun intended) to be comfortable with who WE are.....I give the OP props. Keep doing what makes you feel good. That's It.
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07-23-2012, 03:55 PM
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^ he was asking for peoples opinions, thus he got it.
why are you mad at people who gave their opinion, when they were asked for it?
what did you expect anyway? for everyone to tell him circle jerking is normal?
shits wierd man, im pretty sure even gay guys dont try and have distance contests.
if OP woulda said, I want nothing but positive comments, well then you would have an argument.
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07-23-2012, 04:05 PM
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@glove
not mad at anyone in particular, just mad at society in general.
reason being:
i just found out my cousin died after committing suicide overseas. He could've been the op. My cousin was in very similar situation(s) family and friends didn't approve but he played it out to the end and that was his reward. I just don;t want the OP to follow the same road of undesisiveness and shame.
If we can't help one person now then what does that make us as a person?
I never got the chance to tell my cousin it was ok......
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07-23-2012, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Glove what did you expect anyway? for everyone to tell him circle jerking is normal? |
There is no such thing as normal anymore because our culture and society is completely ambiguous.
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07-23-2012, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000 There is no such thing as normal anymore because our culture and society is completely ambiguous. | while this is true,
normal can be described as the majority of the general population
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07-23-2012, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Glove while this is true,
normal can be described as the majority of the general population | So, if the majority of a population are idiots, your argument is that it's normal to be an idiot.
Got it.
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07-26-2012, 11:24 AM
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#71 | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by Glove while this is true,
normal can be described as the majority of the general population | No, no, no. By choosing the word "normal," you're suggesting that anything to the contrary is abnormal and, by extension, wrong.
I'm certain that I don't stand alone in this thread when I say that being anything other than heterosexual is not abnormal.
If "the majority of the general population" is straight, you could say that an average person is straight; you can't say a normal person is straight.
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07-31-2012, 08:51 PM
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i think it all comes down to what they're jerking off to that determines if it's normal or not.
at first it was lesbian porn that initiated the fapping.
then the situation got to the next level when your friend checked out your cock.
it got worst when he decided to help you jerk it. this part is important because there is a lot of questions that needs to be answered.
1) did you allow him to do it?
2) are you okay with it?
3) did he enjoy it?
4) did you enjoy it?
futhermore, that you guys are doing it on a regular basis and more questions are raised.
1) are you guys enjoying it together?
2) are you guys still helping each other do it?
boys at your age tend to get curious. you need to establish whether it is the porn that you enjoy jerking off to, or the attraction that your friend gives you. if homosexuality isn't your cup of tea, you can look at this in a good way because at least you are capable of banging another chick with your friend. not many guys can do it.
if your homosexual, then i would say, there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. i have some homosexual friends, and they are normal people. they do what they enjoy, and if that's the case for you, then so be it.
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08-02-2012, 10:47 PM
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op I'm not speaking from experience but i think once you wander past the phase of watching porn together it is “abnormal" and you need to sit down and think about whether or not your homosexual or just curious, also it might not be to far off to say that one person between the both of you is fuelling your sexual curiosities and that person may in fact be homosexual while the other is just curious.
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08-04-2012, 12:39 AM
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#74 | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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Originally Posted by smarv you need to sit down and think about whether or not your homosexual or just curious | I respectfully disagree. I don't think there is a need to figure this all out, not for now at least. If they are happy doing what they are doing, that's great. And as things develop or fade away they will start to develop more of a sense of their orientation. For now I would say they don't need to figure it all out immediately, rather than just go with the flow |
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08-04-2012, 11:34 PM
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Experimenting at your age is more common than most people would think. There's a book called the Hite report on Male Sexuality, which is based on an extensive survey done in the 70's of men's sexual habits and practices. There's also the Kinsey surveys. The statistics are that about 30% of straight men have had a homosexual experience, and most of it occurs when they are younger. That's in America. I'm pretty sure that it is higher in Europe due to more cultural openness and liberal attitudes toward sex.
Homosexual acts won't turn you gay. You're either gay or you're not. As you get older, you'll have more ready access toward women. By this point, I think you'd know for sure whether you're more attracted to women or men.
Sexuality can be a pretty fluid thing for someone who is younger. Many men start out watching straight porn and have girlfriends etc but who are constantly questioning their sexuality because deep down they have a sexual attraction toward men. It is only after they have a couple of experiences with other men and get over the psychological taboo do they realize that they are more attracted to men than women.
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