Originally Posted by j3welz (Post 8006240)

Jealousy is NEVER a good thing on the side of men. For women, it’s different. If your girlfriend gets jealous or senses competition from another girl, it INCREASES the attraction she feels for you. Women want men who are wanted. It also feels good personally to know that your girlfriend likes you enough to get jealous (as long as it’s not overboard).

But it doesn’t work the other way around. When a GUY gets jealous of ANOTHER guy, it DECREASES your girlfriends attraction for you and INCREASES her attraction towards the other guy. Your jealousy of some other guy is a sign that he is superior to you. And as a result, your girlfriend is naturally inclined to be drawn towards whoever you’re jealous of.

The golden rule you need to remember in terms of jealousy is that over-protective behavior will NEVER prevent your girlfriend from cheating on you. The ONLY thing in this UNIVERSE that will keep your girlfriend from cheating on you, is a high interest level. If her interest level is low, your girlfriend WILL fuk somebody else. Every single girl in the world has skills comparable to Houdini. They can escape any prison their boyfriends put them in to go fuk some other dude who they’re more attracted to.

Ok, so wtf to do?...Always ACT CONFIDENT. Be a pro con-artist. Even if some guy with metallic balls twice as big as yours is talking to your girlfriend, don’t say shit. If your girlfriend is talking with other guys, talk to other girls. Make sure you DON’T tell her something like “can you please stop talking to other guys,” If you do, then you might as well donate your balls to charity. If your ever in doubt of what to do, ask yourself, “What would James Bond do in this scenario?”

Besides just acting confident, if you actually want to get over your jealousy problems you’re going to have to work on inner game and confidence. Jealousy is a manifestation of your insecurities, I e; your fear of competition and loss, and if you act on it, it means you let your emotions control your actions. A very bad combination of personality traits. This is perfectly countered with confidence which is just raw fearlessness.

And on a final note, it’s not ALWAYS your fault. For the most part, it usually is. But, in some instances your girlfriend might just be a whore. If your girlfriend shows disrespectful behavior, like heavy flirting and grinding with another guy at a club for thirty minutes and giving her phone number to him afterwards , then dump her. Seriously, don’t even think twice about it. I know it’s easier said than done, but believe me, it’s easier to dump your girlfriend and get through it than stay with a girlfriend who does shyt like that. I promise you, it’s much better to get over your fears of losing her than to have to live through a relationship like that.

A lot of guys are under the impression that they’ll be able to change their girlfriend’s inner mental framework and turn them into the type of person they want… it won’t happen. Girls are like stocks, Turn-arounds rarely ever Turn around. Don’t get emotional and think straight with your head on your shoulders when dealing with jealousy in relationships.

Originally Posted by gumnny (Post 8015605)

seriously you are not having the worst , my girlfriend plays her phone texting all day long , it drives me nuts . I asks her who she texting with , she said "friends" . one day we are having dinner together and she just none stop texting , she even ignored my conversation and keep texting , then I grab my phone and text her and she replies me .

seriously whats wrong with all the girls nowadays

Originally Posted by Tapioca (Post 8015800)

Why do you continue to be with this girl then? Is the sex that good? Is she hot and does having her around elevate your status among your peers?

Originally Posted by zx7rrrr (Post 8009983)

I think the main issue is your car.Shes mean to you because u drive a civic..she probably found a new guy who drives a porsche. U gotta step up bro

Originally Posted by gumnny (Post 8015853)

dont even mention about sex . i am already disappointed to the point , back then when we first met , sex is always good and excited , now ? she has less to no interest . it's like i am begging for sex every time and gets turn down , its harsh and hurt , i talked to her about it and she said 'what ... we like each other doesnt mean we need to have sex every day .. " , i am so disappointed and tired of her rejects , i feel useless and helpless , i dont know what to say and deeply just because i still love her so much and wish she would change one day

Originally Posted by too_slow (Post 8015934)

That's rich, considering you had to ask for opinions on what kind of used-baller cars you should pick up for the girl that you had knocked up.. only to settle for a Jetta Trendline..

To the OP : if the girl wants to play games, you should do the same too.. go out and meet other people..

Originally Posted by j3welz (Post 8016155)

Oneitis paralyzes rational thinking in a merciful way. Forget however many year you and your girlfriend spent together, forget the specifics of your relationship, forget all of her best friends who are feeding you abused morality, and forget that shit hole you call a relationship.

You are a man, she is a woman. Why do women have sex with men? To reproduce kids with their genes. Why do women continuously have sex with men? To preserve a nourishing dynamic. Women use sex to get relationships, men use relationships to get sex. If she’s not giving you sex, you shouldn’t give her a relationship. If your girlfriend isn't having as much sex as she should be, it means she subconsciously thinks she can keep you in the relationship without putting out. Seriously, it's that simple.

If you entertain a women’s pleas to withhold sex, this is what happens:

A. She subconsciously assumes that she can do better than you
B. You are displaying lower value than her – destroying your ability to reinforce dominance & attraction
C. YOU subconsciously begin to think that sex is a REWARD for “good behavior” and start acting like a beggar
D. A whole host of bad shit

To solve this:

A. Be wanted by other women. The ultimate remedy to all relationship problems. When a girl is reminded that she is in a competitive sexual market where there is a risk she might lose her boyfriend to another girl, she immediately jumps into hyper-qualifying mode to keep her “good catch”
B. Read (A) one more time
C. Be less available and less needy.
D. Worst case scenario, break-up, fuck other women, and then get back together
E. Be ABLE to fuck other women. Don’t cheat, but don’t fortify yourself in ethical armor. Men with options have a certain aura about them. Remember, the ideal man is one who CAN fuck other women, but WILLINGLY CHOOSES NOT TO.

Originally Posted by gumnny (Post 8015605)

seriously you are not having the worst , my girlfriend plays her phone texting all day long , it drives me nuts . I asks her who she texting with , she said "friends" . one day we are having dinner together and she just none stop texting , she even ignored my conversation and keep texting , then I grab my phone and text her and she replies me .

seriously whats wrong with all the girls nowadays

Originally Posted by gumnny (Post 8020634)

Girlfriend just threw our engagement ring to me and we are done with our engagement. I feel like shit and could not believe she would do this to me

Originally Posted by threezero (Post 8005737)

your girl is just keeping her options open. There is really nothing you can do, being jealous and overprotective isn't gonna make her stop. She is either gonna dump your ass or do it behind your back anyways.

Just ignore her, work on yourself make her see that she already has the best option there is and she better treasure it. Know your bottom line and make sure she knows your bottom line if she dare to hit it than make sure you live up to your words.