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!Yaminashi · 01-04-2013, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by El Bastardo

The following is a reply from the anonymous member

"with my school starting on 2nd and with my full time work, i really don't see the relationship going any further down the road, i will barely have enough time to feed myself. i am really sorry. Lets forget what happened the first night we met, but stay as really close friends at this point, and keep in close contact and still hang out"

Am i the only one that noticed this? She wont have time to date you but she still wants to keep close and hang out...

Sounds like she has plenty of spare time to string you along.

Kindly tell this bitch shes retarded.

Thanks

mr_chin · 01-04-2013, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Noir

Wow, just jump right into the deep end why don't you. Sure, that's not awkward at all

Oh and BTW, you're right. You should feel sorry for my parents. They had their work cut out for them when raising me. OTOH.... I think I feel more sorry for ANY girl that has to deal with this:

I don't think I have any female friends who DOESN'T wanna give an explanation when they unintentionally lead a guy on. All of them have gone through situations where guys thought they like them, and they would kindly deny them by letting them know.

I guess we're just surrounded by different people who have different ways of dealing with things. I guess I'm just the type of person who can handle any kind of of awkwardness and social embarrassment. I guess I'm just the type of person who confronts others when I feel offended and abused.

She didn't give a shit about you when she lead you on, why in the hell should you care if she'll feel awkward or not. I mean, if it doesn't bother you then I understand. But if it keeps you thinking for days, then who gives a fuck how she feels and go find out.

Gridlock · 01-05-2013, 07:58 AM

Holy sweet fuck. I'm confused.

Here we have a girl that did you the solid of putting out...a nice gift of ass if you will. Goes out with you a few times...nice. Here's an opportunity for MORE ass, is fairly honest with you that between school and work, she doesn't have a whole lot of time for a full on relationship, but would like to continue to hang out(meaning...date, but not be tied into a relationship, meaning, when she's busy, fuck off)

And you lose your shit and want her to break up with you...officially. There is nothing to "break". Who the fuck honestly expects that she has to sit him down and officially say, "I no longer want to NOT go out with you"?

And we get a thread filled with "the bitches be crazy" and "hoes want attention". She seems quite fucking sane to me, and its the OP that seems to be attention starved.

It's not like she was pushing commitment before offering up the ass, then taking it back. I don't see games here. Could she have said something during the commitment conversation? Yes. Absolutely yes. But I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt that when you have a conversation you are unprepared for, and the OP is sitting there with puppy dog eyes, it would be difficult to do.

And does anyone have any doubt left that Mr.Chin is OP?

Soundy · 01-05-2013, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Gridlock

Holy sweet fuck. I'm confused.

Here we have a girl that did you the solid of putting out...a nice gift of ass if you will. Goes out with you a few times...nice. Here's an opportunity for MORE ass, is fairly honest with you that between school and work, she doesn't have a whole lot of time for a full on relationship, but would like to continue to hang out(meaning...date, but not be tied into a relationship, meaning, when she's busy, fuck off)

Did you forget the part at the beginning where she simply dropped off the face of the earth at the first mention of the word "relationship"? The whole "don't have time" BS came much later, after OP told her he didn't want anything more to do with her.

If this ain't a classic attention whore, I dunno what is.

mr_chin · 01-05-2013, 10:22 AM

OP stated that he got pussy afterwards, not in his original post. In his original post he said he didn't bang her.

And why does everyone think that asking her what's up with the MIA is such a big deal? You're not knocking on her door demanding an explanation. You're simply texting her asking what's up with the no replies? Etc. If she doesn't want to say then so be it, all I'm saying is in moral sense that anyone who do shit like this should explain them self just to be nice. And anyone who falls victim to it deserves an explanation. You're not interrogating her, you're not stalking her for answers, you're not threatening her.

Make up some bs excuse if she has to, at least put the guy to rest rather than leave him hanging stressing on what he did wrong.
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MaxinX · 01-05-2013, 11:25 AM

Sounds like you're the backup...maybe there's another guy..? Whether or not there is you should consider why you're still trying to figure out what to do with her and question if this is a person you want around your life.

You're a product of your environment and the people you are around. These things and people shape your future, but only you have the key to create your own destiny. You can have all the money or knowledge in the world but if you have no character I don't really feel like any of that matters. IMHO