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01-22-2013, 06:36 PM
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#1 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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gf wants to find another female for some sexy times, but is willing to do a triad relationship for the right girl.
Any tips on how to find someone who would be open to the idea? We have one in mind but my estimate of that particular girl being down is >10%. Obviously we both have to be fine with the girl so that in itself will already present a challenge on top of finding a girl to be down for it.
To be clear we are not swingers, and this is not polygamy. It would be categorized under poly amorous and triad relationship.
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01-22-2013, 06:45 PM
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#2 | | #deephouse
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01-22-2013, 06:46 PM
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#3 | | How I Mod your mother
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The chance of her being down is greater than 10%?
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01-22-2013, 06:59 PM
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#4 | | I bringith the lowerballerith
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jesus... this is the kind of stuff men dare only dream about
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01-22-2013, 07:04 PM
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01-22-2013, 07:14 PM
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Let the Gf choose. I can only see relationship problems if you end up choosing the girl.
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01-22-2013, 07:19 PM
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#7 | | Banned By Establishment
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01-22-2013, 07:37 PM
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#8 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by !Yaminashi  The chance of her being down is greater than 10%? | Fuck is that what that means? LOL
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Originally Posted by guddagudd jesus... this is the kind of stuff men dare only dream about | Its a dream for a reason. Even if leh GF suggests it, its fuck hard and complicated to find the right girl.
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01-22-2013, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by nabs Let the Gf choose. I can only see relationship problems if you end up choosing the girl. | I'm sure his gf wants his opinion as well since it's a girl they'll both share in bed. Keep in mind, this is not your average MF relationship.
Now, how the guy performs when he's in bed with the two girls is a different story. The third one must always be the masochist one while his GF is the predominant one unless agreed otherwise.
I only have 2 advice for this, take it with a grain of salt since I have no experience in this type of stuff.
1) Straight up asks girls if they'll be interested in a threesome.
2) Gradually invite targeted girls to chill with the two of you, you hit on her giving her hints you want to tap that shit. Then have your girl make a move on her. If she rejects your girl, it's not going to work.
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01-23-2013, 08:27 AM
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This is a test of the emergency relationship system. This is only a test. Do not go along with the test and just act as you would normally. Remember. This is only a test.
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01-23-2013, 08:29 AM
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#11 | | I told him no, what y'all do?
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01-23-2013, 08:52 AM
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#12 | | I WANT MY 10 YEARS BACK FROM RS.net!
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Originally Posted by dinosaur Ask Mindbomber for advice. | No no, ask xilley... oh, wait... Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_chin Now, how the guy performs when he's in bed with the two girls is a different story. The third one must always be the masochist one while his GF is the predominant one unless agreed otherwise. | A buddy of mine years ago had a GF who was kinda weird and liked to get her freak on with a particular friend of hers. He was a bit of a male slut, so he thought this was stellar... told me after he'd broken up with both of them, it may be every guy's dream, but taking care of two women like that is a LOT of work. Said he enjoyed it, but it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. Quote:
1) Straight up asks girls if they'll be interested in a threesome.
2) Gradually invite targeted girls to chill with the two of you, you hit on her giving her hints you want to tap that shit. Then have your girl make a move on her. If she rejects your girl, it's not going to work.
| Offhand (and also not having any experience with this) I'd say #1 is probably your best bet. If she's going to go for it, she'll probably respond to the straight (pardon the pun) approach. If she's not into the concept, trying to work her into it gradually won't likely succeed.
In my buddy's case, it was easy: the two chicks were best friends and had been into each other (again, pardon the pun) since before they met - it was more a case of the GF convincing him to try it (doubt it took much convincing!) Quote:
Originally Posted by GLOW it's raining today, glad someone pulled the tarp1 out | TROLOLOLOLOL
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01-23-2013, 08:55 AM
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01-23-2013, 09:16 AM
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#14 | | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
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01-23-2013, 09:30 AM
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it's not as easy as it sounds. i know a gf that is opened to it but damn it's hard work. not only is it SO HARD to find someone that's hte 3rd wheel, it's so hard ot ensure the person is clean.
some wanted it to be a stranger which is like.... er... go find one on CL? how can you trust the guy or girl is clean and doesn't have herpes.
if you want a friend to be in this, do you know how hard it is to find 2 girls with the same mentality. long story short, it is NOT what you see on TV. lots of logistic involved but also, when you're doing hte deed, it gets really awkward.
again, key point, u can put on a condom for a guy, but damn, for a girl, u cannot prevent herpes or the clap when u're doing the deed and it's something that's really weird to prevent.
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01-23-2013, 12:32 PM
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#16 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Yea cleanliness is a biggie for me/us, thats why hard to find a sweet young curious thang for it instead of a sleezy girl.
I wanted to avoid the whole straight up "interested in threesome" approach but thinking about it, yea you guys are probably right.
like what Soundy said, i dont think its all that its hyped up to be. Even though the chance is there, finding someone who matches what we want (clean, good lookin, interested etc) will already be on the very difficult end of things.
Ill keep you guys updated if things progress, but if people with experience have tips on finding/getting a girl interested then keep on going! I want to try it at least once in my life lol
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01-23-2013, 08:58 PM
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#17 | | Proud to be called a RS Regular!
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Read your other post. First your gf asks you to wear her panties and now this? The fuck?? Sounds like she needs a psychiatrist more than anything...
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01-23-2013, 10:09 PM
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I honestly don't see anything wrong with that. They want to keep their lives/sex lives exciting and new and fresh. So what? who are we to judge.
I actually think it's quite refreshing that they are coming up with viable ideas and are open to the realities of the situation they are in and entering into.
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01-24-2013, 01:11 AM
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#19 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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At least they are trying to keep some surprise to the relationship. Keeps the relationship exciting as the same old thing day in and day out can get kinda boring dont you think..
I have no experience in this but i can see this being alot of work. Guess you have one way of finding out tho hahaha, Good luck on the search  | |
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01-24-2013, 01:27 AM
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Damn it would so be fun
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01-24-2013, 07:53 AM
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#21 | | RS controls my life!
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Go some some of the Sin City fetish balls. Bound to meet some people there that fit your bill.
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01-31-2013, 10:22 AM
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#22 | | I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
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i've got the same issue....my girl wants to get down with another girl 100%, we talk about it alot, get lap dances at the strip club (and have a GREAT time with them)....but her problem is she doesn't want to see me with another girl (although i'm slowly working her through this)
the problem is finding a good clean girl....and yes, let her choose
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01-31-2013, 10:36 AM
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#23 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Might have found the perfect girl! Talked about the girl with my girl and i could tell she was into her!
Its all up to the other girl now, shes interested but has a SO that she needs to ask if its okay.
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01-31-2013, 10:43 AM
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#24 | | I keep RS good
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a drug filled 9 some was fun. but now that i think back, the magic number is 3 girls 1 guy.
contrary to people's fantasies, more is not better lol.
if there are any restrictions on the man (no kissing other girl, or fucking or whatever), then it's not a fantasy. fuck that.
there should be no restrictions in anyway for anyone. otherwise you need to find new girls.
make sure that's very clear with your gf. I wouldn't ever have an orgy where I was restricted to the demands of one girl. ever. 
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01-31-2013, 10:44 AM
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#25 | | I keep RS good
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Originally Posted by z3german Might have found the perfect girl! Talked about the girl with my girl and i could tell she was into her!
Its all up to the other girl now, shes interested but has a SO that she needs to ask if its okay. | lol just ask him to join. find a 3rd girl. 2 guys 3 girls ain't bad lol.
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