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Gridlock 10-22-2013 04:57 PM

Do some people in this thread live at home? Cause I'd have no way to tell.

bloodmack 10-22-2013 05:45 PM

Bro, just go out roofie some chick and get it done. Easy peasy.. :troll:

on a serious note,

your putting sex on a pedestal it shouldn't be on. For me the pleasure of sleeping with another girl is the fact that I actually like her for her and we are sharing a bonding experience. yes there are horndogs out there and I wouldn't object to having a girl who wants to fuck all day everyday, but I can live without it. If all else fails I got palmela handerson and it most cases its much more enjoyable then the latter, lol.

tiger_handheld 10-22-2013 08:26 PM

Save a couple hundred.
Buy a table at <insert club name here>
You will have chicks crawling up to you for free drinks
Take one to <insert hotel here>
PROFIT

On Topic: forget finding a girl for relationship. Find a girl to become friends with - just friends, get friend zoned. For some reason, if you already have good girl friends, potential girls will talk to you. It's like a mating call of sorts... people always want what they can't have...

mr_chin 10-22-2013 09:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Bastardo (Post 8344275)
The following is a post from an anonymous Revscene member. Please keep your responses civil and appropriate


Im turning 24 and have yet to have sex. I have had sexual encounters which included handjobs and oral about 15-20 times since I turned 18 with different girls. But they were all escorts I found off local escorting websites and I paid them around $100 each. To make it short, Im just wondering how old is too old to be a virgin? I know the politically correct answer is that it's never too old but Im talking from a real world point of view. I have seen some videos of men in their 30s and 40s that are virgins and they dont seem normal at all. I always thought I was a pretty regular guy but I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me that girls dont like. By the way, Im done university and work a job where I'm the only one in the office so I dont really have any friends at the moment. Would you guys say I should pay for sex when i hit 26? or 30? Unfortunately im still living with my parents so I can save up a downpayment so I will probably be in my 30s until Im remotely attractive to any girl but Im pretty sure if I told a girl I am a virgin right now, she would not want to do anything.

Any help is appreciated

It seems you rather pay to satisfy your desire to play some games in hopes on getting some.

What you are feeling now so normal. As you get older, you start to worry about stuff like sex, relationship, your image, etc.

What you have to do is determine where you want to be in 10 years. Do you want a girlfriend? Or are you going to be a bachelor and continue paying for sex? Or maybe one night stands? Are you capable of keeping a relationship? (Seeing as you pay for sex, it tells me you're not really good at sharing your happiness, etc.)

Determination is your first priority. Determine who you are and what you want. If you're afraid of being a virgin at 26... 30, pay escorts and get it over with. To me, sex is sex. Fucking your girlfriend to de-virginize is the same as fucking anybody IMO.

Yes, I am single and no, I don't plan on being in a relationship any time soon.

Mr.HappySilp 10-22-2013 11:02 PM

Watch 40's old Virgin is all I have to say lol

Marshall Placid 10-22-2013 11:13 PM

When you get into a serious relationship, everything follows, including... sex.

For psychological reasons for yourself, you have to remind yourself that if you don't tell anybody, they won't know you are a virgin.

Your experience, or lack thereof, can only truly be revealed to your future partner, and I really think it will turn out to be quite endearing for her (your future serious GF) to find out.

I echo some of the posters here when saying that going the prostitutes route has a whole mountain of disadvantages which are painfully obvious (pun not intended at first, then 1 second later, intended).

6793026 10-23-2013 10:00 AM

Once you go down the road with hookers & escorts, you will never be able to turn back. Learn to do it the RIGHT way. Wait for the relationship and the rest will follow. It's ONLY then when you know how to do it properly where you can experiment and explore the boundaries.

IF you go the hookers route, I can guarantee you that you won't be able to settle back to a "boring relationship".

Example: Your GF will never ever ever going to be able to do what porn stars do but teens now have perception that's what's needed.

The_AK 10-23-2013 02:47 PM

have you tried lowering your standards? some girls are PRETTY desperate

Isaiah11 10-23-2013 08:41 PM

like others said, in cliffnotes:

1) moving out = increasing chance of getting laid

2) you need a relationship, not just sex

3) you're putting sex on a pedestal


Sounds like you need/want a GF badly. Put yourself out there and sarge like you're in vegas. You're 24 now. Grow a pair and strike up as many conversations with females as possible.

sex is great but if I had to rank, it isn't even a top 5 life experience

edit: it isn't even a top 5 life exp when done sober

JShifter 10-23-2013 08:42 PM

In life the best thing isn't sex its about two people caring for each other you got to admit it sex kills relationships and a whole lot of other things as well if you get me.

6793026 10-24-2013 08:14 AM

moving out works, but man, you better get your priorities straight. Make sure you get some game first. cause it's like having a car without a driver's license.

Soundy 10-24-2013 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sedan (Post 8345684)
In life the best thing isn't sex its about two people caring for each other you got to admit it sex kills relationships and a whole lot of other things as well if you get me.

No, nobody gets you.

http://troll.me/images/angry-samuel-...you-use-it.jpg

dinosaur 10-24-2013 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Soundy (Post 8345965)
No, nobody gets you.

:haha: :haha: :haha: :bowrofl:

meme405 10-24-2013 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Sedan (Post 8345684)
In life the best thing isn't sex its about two people caring for each other you got to admit it sex kills relationships and a whole lot of other things as well if you get me.

See quote below

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gridlock (Post 8306294)
On RS, commas are so cheap, they are almost free.

You should use them :)



Quote:

Originally Posted by Sedan (Post 8345684)
sex kills relationships

Only if you suck at it...

dinosaur 10-24-2013 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by meme405 (Post 8346077)
Only if you suck at it...

Yeah, I agree. I think sex can really bring a couple together.

Obviously sex with others when you are in a relationship could effectively "kill" a relationship, but in general terms....sex is the coolest.

meme405 10-24-2013 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by dinosaur (Post 8346085)
Obviously sex with others when you are in a relationship could effectively "kill" a relationship, but in general terms....sex is the coolest.

What if both you and your SO are in on it?:ifyouknow:

dinosaur 10-24-2013 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by meme405 (Post 8346087)
What if both you and your SO are in on it?:ifyouknow:

....Paging mindbomber...... :hotbaby:

MindBomber 10-24-2013 01:42 PM

The simple fact is..

Among twenty and thirty-somethings, non-monogamous relationships are hardly unusual or secret... not unlike bi-sexuality and pansexuality. It's all just a matter of individual perspectives on sex and relationships. As long as all involved are aware and down, my thoughts are that they should do what's right for them.. and no outsiders opinion should have any influence.

hotjoint 10-24-2013 01:50 PM

As other have said, stop focusing on getting laid, go out and meet some nice girls and have a relationship, the sex will follow. If you're so desperate to lose your virginity, shoulda paid those hookers a little more and gone all the way. The choice is in your hands

murd0c 10-24-2013 06:20 PM

Don't feel bad about it because I know a number of females that would find it being a turn on that you are still a virgin. What you need is female interaction and just let things happen, my advice is go onto POF start talking to females and take things from there, its not guaranteed booty of course but it will let you work on things and when you feel ready you can go on dates and let things go from there.

Don't feel shamed because you are still a virgin because no one should feel that way its just something that hasn't happened yet but it will so don't worry at all.

Soundy 10-24-2013 10:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sedan (Post 8345684)
...sex kills relationships...

Quote:

Originally Posted by meme405 (Post 8346077)
Only if you suck at it...

Depends on who's doing the sucking ;)

punkwax 10-24-2013 10:32 PM

Proud of confidential OP for not losing virginity to a prostitute. :thumbsup:

DanHibiki 10-31-2013 03:13 PM

I have a 29 year old virgin friend

stewie 11-05-2013 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by dinosaur (Post 8344336)

4. Stop "saving" for a down payment and move out. You are 24 and should be starting your adult phase in life. We don't find owning a place attractive, we find living independent attractive. You should not be buying real estate in this market and for the foreseeable future anyways. Don't date a girl who judges attractiveness based on your networth.

Only thing I don't see eye to eye with. I'm 27, an adult, and I live at home. I could've moved out years ago like my friends did, but if I did that, I'd be renting forever. Half of them moved back home anyways since they realized they need to save. I live at home to save for a down payment. I'd rather suck it up, rough it out and live at home now for a few years before I can buy my own, rather than not be able to save and live in a basement suite/apt.

As for sex in the house...who cares...we have sex... It's not like I'm throwing her into the wall at 3am or giving her a concussion from the headboard, or having her scream at the top of her lungs. Breakfast in the morning, my family loves my gf. I can leave her at my house with my mom and dad and I'll go out and come back 6 hours later.
It's only as awkward as you make it.
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dinosaur 11-05-2013 08:19 AM

I'm sorry, I don't think you understand what I meant when I said "Don't date a girl who judges attractiveness based on your networth".

That is what you say we don't see eye to eye on, right?

It means you shouldn't date someone because of how much money they have. You disagree with this?


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