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12-20-2013, 10:20 PM
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#1 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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| Girl doesn't like me watching porn
Anyone date someone like this?
She says it makes her feel inadequate and she's not enough and can't compete with porn.
She believes it's why men don't appreciate women and why our eyes tend to wander (wonder? JOKING) when in public.
She says she's willing to send me whatever pics and videos of her that I want to use instead.
What are you thoughts on this?
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12-20-2013, 10:21 PM
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Post her pics and vids, then we can give feedback. 
On a more serious note - some women just don't like porn - albeit self-esteem or whatever reason. Make some vids with her if she's into that - could relax her opinion a bit
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12-20-2013, 10:27 PM
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Just say you don't watch it and carry on fapping
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12-20-2013, 10:31 PM
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Is she strange in other ways too? Like is she a prude overall? Or does she have really low self esteem overall?
Basically you have to convince her that she's wrong... how you do that though, I have no idea. Depends on why she thinks like that in the first place.
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12-20-2013, 10:42 PM
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I just finished watching Jon Don too.... how interesting....
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12-20-2013, 10:53 PM
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I would, personally, look at the possibility of respecting my partner's wishes.
I'd suspect she's a feminist - as she's referencing ideas important in feminist theory - and the request is simply a reflection of those beliefs.
I'm not sure the reasoning for her wishes is important, though.
I think that you, as her partner, should attempt to honour her reasonable request.
It's relationship give and take 101.
I would dare to suggest, porn is too pervasive at this point. I stopped watching it and I'm glad I did.
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12-20-2013, 11:01 PM
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Do the NOFAP challange. You will thank later.
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12-20-2013, 11:14 PM
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Came in to say Don Jon (pirates unite)
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12-20-2013, 11:49 PM
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seriously, she is STEPPING up to offer you pics and videos of HER. that's a HUGE step forward. This is the time to really MOLD her the way you want it.
Again, it's a given and take, you have to fulfill her fantasies too but dude, run with it, anal to gagging to any fooked up fisting shit you want... this is YOUR time to really open up both venues to explore your boundaries.
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12-20-2013, 11:50 PM
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Ask her to make pornos with you.
Rewatch it.
Tell her shes as beautiful as the girl in the video.
Make more videos.
Post online.
Make $$
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12-21-2013, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted by 6793026  seriously, she is STEPPING up to offer you pics and videos of HER. that's a HUGE step forward. This is the time to really MOLD her the way you want it.
Again, it's a given and take, you have to fulfill her fantasies too but dude, run with it, anal to gagging to any fooked up fisting shit you want... this is YOUR time to really open up both venues to explore your boundaries. | this
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12-21-2013, 12:10 AM
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who cares, unless shes hovering over you 24/7 and monitors every site you visit...just say you don't watch porn and continue to do what you've always done.
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12-21-2013, 12:59 AM
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Well I don't like hearing about when my girl has flirted with a guy, and probably wouldn't want to know she's watching porn and thinking of other guys plowing her.
My view has always been trust and don't talk about it. If she's flirting with another guy and doesn't tell me I just pretend it doesn't happen and I flirt with other girls and she knows about it to.
we just don't tell each other we're mac'in on other people and it works.
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12-21-2013, 01:52 AM
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I would say she should get over it but the fact that she's offering to make porn for you seems like a pretty good deal. Just download a whole bunch of stuff and say "Baby, I want to make a video like this!"
Make sure you keep that shit on lock though. Don't pull an Edison and send your laptop in for repair. RS would have a field day.
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12-21-2013, 03:07 AM
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12-21-2013, 05:33 AM
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Tell her you need to watch porn for research purposes. You're going to use that useful important information to rock her world
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12-21-2013, 08:14 AM
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All the women I have seriously dated did not like porn, and I do understand there opinion on it and I will respect them and not watch it BUT they would have to be willing to step up the plate on that.
If they want you to not watch it (for whatever reason) then providing you that same thing (be it sex or videos/pics) is not asking much.
I think this girl sounds pretty cool if she is willing to do that for you. I would be worried if she didn't want you to watch it, as a prude and didn't want to sex ya or offer some form of alternative.
Now go get your woman to rock your mic!
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12-21-2013, 11:52 AM
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Tell her that you don't like it when she has her period. Can't bone for shit.
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12-21-2013, 12:36 PM
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If you're serious about the girl a full disclosure deal is in order.
She appears to totally dig you.
It's a biological fact for guys that the boys work overtime producing gametes.
Buildup is uncomfortable.
Release is bliss.
Not all women appreciate this fact.
Your girl wants to understand.
Time for fun club.
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12-21-2013, 12:48 PM
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She needs to understand fapping to porn is perfectly normal and sometimes two people's sex drive just are not on the same level.
It's also perfectly ok for a partner to check out a person of the opposite sex as long as the line (cheating) is not crossed. I mean cant you fucking appreciate human's beauty? It's built in the human brain and has nothing to do with moral and all that jazz. Some people are just too uptight and it makes being in the relationship harder than it should be.
Or you could negotiate a compromising deal. If you know what I mean.
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12-21-2013, 12:54 PM
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#21 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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Thanks for the replies guys. Sorry I didn't reply sooner I was really sick and passed the fuck out.
She's a highly intelligent girl...sometimes too intelligent. I ask a question I expect a short answer to but get a long full explanation to almost everything. I can't win arguments or anything because she just has all the right answers.
She's not crazy or anything. She has her insecurities but it's stemmed from problems the avg person doesn't have. I've got my own problems too and it's why we connected (I don't seem to get close with normal ppl with normal problems much anymore).
She's very caring and nurturing and devoted to helping ppl.
She does have a strong "men are pigs and "so and so things in society has made men into pigs".
She's pretty independent and sort of a feminist but really expects chivalry from men.
She's pretty crazy in bed but doesn't do BJ (only the second girl I've met that doesn't do this).
I agree with your guys' advice that I should reach some sexual compromise such as receiving BJ's and such but I have a strong strong feeling that I will come out as insensitive still if I ask this.
And I know I can do it secretly but I'm trying to be honest.
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12-21-2013, 12:59 PM
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If you need to hide it shes the wrong one for you buddy. Simple as that.
This is a small thing and if there's no compromise then its time to move on but it sounds to me like shes game for most anything to get you to not watch it.
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12-21-2013, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by DanHibiki Thanks for the replies guys. Sorry I didn't reply sooner I was really sick and passed the fuck out.
She's a highly intelligent girl...sometimes too intelligent. I ask a question I expect a short answer to but get a long full explanation to almost everything. I can't win arguments or anything because she just has all the right answers.
She's not crazy or anything. She has her insecurities but it's stemmed from problems the avg person doesn't have. I've got my own problems too and it's why we connected (I don't seem to get close with normal ppl with normal problems much anymore).
She's very caring and nurturing and devoted to helping ppl.
She does have a strong "men are pigs and "so and so things in society has made men into pigs".
She's pretty independent and sort of a feminist but really expects chivalry from men.
She's pretty crazy in bed but doesn't do BJ (only the second girl I've met that doesn't do this).
I agree with your guys' advice that I should reach some sexual compromise such as receiving BJ's and such but I have a strong strong feeling that I will come out as insensitive still if I ask this.
And I know I can do it secretly but I'm trying to be honest.
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12-21-2013, 01:07 PM
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#24 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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I'm seriously afraid to ask her for a compromise (bj?) in case of backlash and another fight breaks out.
Blah okay. I'll ask her for a compromise and even if not I'll give the no porn thing a try ;__;
Is it a good idea to watch don Jon with her?
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12-21-2013, 01:14 PM
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Just go to pound town on her.
She doesn't want you to go to porn and it seems like you want/need the release so go to her each and every time with your needs. Sounds to me like she will take care of it.
Perhaps, ask her why she does not like to give BJ's. Many women don't because they have had a bad experience where it was dirty or smelled nasty. Perhaps she may be willing to give it another try if you approach it with understanding.
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