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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
[Confidential] Want to pick your man brains out there
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So I met this guy, very good looking, tall, smart, charming, sexy, the whole package. He works out of Seattle and spends some of his weekends/days off here.
We had a great first date and the night ended with plenty of fun, minus sex.
We meet again the day he leaves town for work again. Cuddles, kisses, and sex happen. He seemed to like me and I left happy.
I get a text the next day, where he said that he had fun with me, and that I'm a nice girl so he'll be straight up that he doesn't think we'll meet each other again in the future.
I appreciate that he told me straight up, and I thanked him for being straight with me... but I can't help but wonder why. I thought about asking him why but I've deleted his contact information by that point.
I'm disappointed because we had great conversation, and I felt that the connection went beyond the physical, and I would have wanted to date him or hook up again when he was back in town.
So guys, why?
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Originally Posted by MG1
She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face.
Originally posted by v.b. can we stop, my pussy hurts... Originally posted by asian_XL fliptuner, I am gonna grab ur dick and pee in your face, then rub shit all over my face...:lol Originally posted by Fei-Ji haha i can taste the cum in my mouth Originally posted by FastAnna when I was 13 I wanted to be a video hoe so bad
If he's coming to town from Seattle just for weekends and days off, it means he's here for fun. He doesn't want to get into a long distance, or long term relationship.
Now your reply is most likely going to be: "Well we could've hooked up more" but that would still lead to the above.
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[17-03, 09:23] Amuro Ray is it normal for my dick to have things growing on it?
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[15-05, 13:34] FastAnna You guise are like diet coke and I am the mentos
[15-05, 13:34] FastAnna Incredible. How easy it is.
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Originally Posted by murd0c
I'm scared of spiders... When I see one I toss my cats at it
If he was really being straight up with you, he would've told you he didn't want anything ongoing before the sex. The "why" should be pretty obvious here.
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Originally Posted by maksimizer
half those dudes are hotter than ,my GF.
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Originally Posted by RevYouUp
reading this thread is like waiting for goku to charge up a spirit bomb in dragon ball z
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Originally Posted by Good_KarMa
OH thank god. I thought u had sex with my wife. :cry:
What if he was really falling in love with you and realized you were his soulmate but when he got back to Seattle he got news that he had terminal cancer. So instead of continuing on and breaking your heart, he broke it off, quick, to save you from any anguish. That's why he did it via text because had he called, he would've broken down and not gone through with it. In the end, he set you free because he loves you so much.
Originally posted by v.b. can we stop, my pussy hurts... Originally posted by asian_XL fliptuner, I am gonna grab ur dick and pee in your face, then rub shit all over my face...:lol Originally posted by Fei-Ji haha i can taste the cum in my mouth Originally posted by FastAnna when I was 13 I wanted to be a video hoe so bad
Is this the first time this has happened to you? It's a pretty common thing, especially with out-of-towners. Feel lucky he respected you enough to tell you he wouldn't be seeing you again, sometimes they just disappear. Best to move on. It's pretty easy to fake a "real connection", or maybe he felt something but didn't feel it click in the bedroom. It's super easy to be duped by the smoke and mirrors when you're really into someone, though, and feel a connection when it's one-sided. Next time you meet a handsome out-of-town stranger, go on a few dates, make sure they're looking for a relationship, then sleep with them. 4-6 actual dates is a good number. Most guys won't stick around after 4 dates if they haven't gotten sex yet and aren't looking for a relationship...except for the really terrible ones who like a serious challenge.
ice boy hit the nail on the head, the pursuit is more fun than everything that comes after it. Just be happy he didn't keep you as a weekend booty call long enough for you to catch any serious feelings.
Ice Boy's post sounds like the blockbuster drama of the summer starring Liam Hemsworth and Ariana Grande.
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Originally Posted by MG1
She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face.
Originally posted by v.b. can we stop, my pussy hurts... Originally posted by asian_XL fliptuner, I am gonna grab ur dick and pee in your face, then rub shit all over my face...:lol Originally posted by Fei-Ji haha i can taste the cum in my mouth Originally posted by FastAnna when I was 13 I wanted to be a video hoe so bad
I only get turned on by professional whores where whoring is their profession. Not whores who are professionals. yuck, that means I have to actually listen to the shit that comes out of their mouth.
sounds exactly like the same story I heard from this girl is that you??
Here is a tip for girls trying to get into a relationship : do not give sex on the 1st or 2nd or many many dates after. The thirst is gone when reached.
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Hey guys,
Can someone tell good or unusual dating spots? Or what was your the most unusual date? THanks for sharing!
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my bedroom =D
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Originally Posted by dhillon09
that's a great secret date spot,
i bet no girl in vancouver has seen it.
sounds exactly like the same story I heard from this girl is that you??
Here is a tip for girls trying to get into a relationship : do not give sex on the 1st or 2nd or many many dates after. The thirst is gone when reached.
Maybe he realized that he made a mistake and that was his way of letting you off by not being a prick. He was honest to you when he could of not responded at all, take this has a lesson and at least you had some fun for a couple dates
The flag was captured.
The mission was accomplished.
Territory was conquered.
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
you're just a notch on his belt.
sorry to say, but people who put out so early = why guys cheat, lie and say they are single when they are out of town. cause sex is jut so darn easy to find and get.