Congratulations.

3 kids is the tipping point when your household will take a long-term hit financially.

My wife is now a VP and we have two kids who are now 5 and 7. Life in North America is centered around families of 4 people - you'll be fine.

I've only see one Stokke and it's my neighbour who has it. They are kind of uppity, you are right. They look space age and fashionable, but I feel not very practical, and I wasn't impressed with the quality of the roll when pushing it.

Stokke Tripp Trapps however are all the rage.

Well you had to fuck to get to where you are ;)

CONGRATS

from what everyone has told me, 2nd is easier as you learn so much from your first. But also you could be completely screwed as sometimes the 2nd child is nothing like the 1st lol

Haha i have friends with 3+ kids, and they all say, on a scale of 10 with 10 being the most difficult, it's:
1st: 8/10
2nd: 15/10
3rd+: 2/10

With the first it's hard because you donno wtf you're doing.
2nd is realllly hard because unless your first is past grade school, you now have to worry about an infant AND a toddler. Like the infant needs naps but the toddler is screaming. Or the toddler throws a tantrum because you won't let him/her feed the infant goldfish crackers.
3rd+, you don't give a shit, tv and cheetos when they're 6 months. haha

Thanks for the comments a few pages on back on infant car seat brands.

Anyone have an opinion on infant seats vs. convertible? Seems like the convertible are better financially since you only have to buy one seat; however, they can be more bulky which is a pain at the start when you are pulling them out of the car and carrying them/connecting it to the stroller.

I went with the infant seat to start because it was just so much easier. One latch and the whole thing (baby + carrier bucket) comes off. One click and it gets locked in the car. Then you just carry the baby carrier everywhere.

IMO, a newborn / infant would be too small / too fragile / too limp to set him up in the car seat when you are inside the car. It is much easier to do it at home by putting him into the baby carrier.

I would bite the bullet and buy an infant seat. Infants sleep a lot and you probably don't want to risk waking them up by taking them in and out of a convertible seat.

When you go to a place like Snuggle Bugz or TJ's, you should demo some infant seats and compatible strollers. Taking an infant seat out of the car with your baby in it is actually very easy - far easier than crouching down and unbuckling an infant from a convertible seat.

The first couple of years with an infant and toddler were tough, no question about it.

However, once they learn to communicate with each other, it's all gravy after that.

100% buy an infant seat, unless you're really strapped. Even then I'd forego other things and get an infant seat.

You cannot easily remove a convertible seat from the car, and afaik, not a single convertible seat 'clicks' into a stroller. Convertibles are meant to be set in the car, and left there. Infant seats detach from the base which connects to the car.

Being able to un/buckle the floppy newborn outside of the car alone is worth it, and being able to transport him/her from the car to home without fiddling around, especially if they're asleep.

They're also inherently easier to use because they're designed only to a low weight/height limit, whereas convertibles are designed with a much larger range.

Plus if you are thinking of having more than 1, as long as you store it properly (ie. not in a shed outside) you can reuse them as long as they're not expired.

Until they're old enough to play by themselves without imminent danger, the best vacations are the few hours you get alone at home haha.

But congrats, sounds like you hit the sleep lottery. Although I think at that age you're still supposed to wake them up to feed, I don't remember now haha.

When's the RS hand me down thread start?

Infant carrier is safer as they're designed for them and you can get them in and out of a car without waking them.

Convertible can work, but they all have a minimal size and weight limit. If your child is a bit premature most convertibles even with an infant insert will not be suitable and the hospital would not let you leave unless you have a seat that's safe for your child.

If you guys are interested, I can see if I can ask for an exclusive discount code from Clek. Just let me know if this is something you guys actually want and willing to commit.

I don’t know all the terms. But my wife and I had the baby carrier that clicks into the base that you leave in the car. So we had a base for both cars made it super easy. Then you take the baby carrier and it clicks right into the buggy. At the time my buggy was a different brand but with an adapter bar it works in like too. It was awesome

^that's the infant seat lol

my 3rd is only a few weeks old so not sure about the rating for that but i totally agree with the 1st and 2nd ratings; my 2nd was a nightmare experience for the first year

Sibling rivalry every day :fuuuuu:

Must be nice lol. All my 5 & 7 YO do is bicker and fight.

Then I have to mediate this:

Dad, 5YO is petting and treating me like a cat!
Well, you've been sitting there mewing so maybe if you didn't act like a cat 5YO won't treat you like a cat.

Shoulda been like "sorry, I don't speak cat". Really piss 7YO off lol.

https://www.reddit.com/r/therewasana...tm_name=iossmf

If this happened to me I would hope I respond with just a wee bit more vigor than the dad in the video.

That was pathetic

WTF was the dad doing? If the monkey was trying to steal my kid, you can bet I'd do more than just fake kicks... FailFish

So a while ago the kid was doing something and bopped the back of her head. To distract her from crying I told her I would teach her how to say "I bumped my head" like a smart adult. She was immediately interested, so half in jest, I taught her to next time say "Something struck my occipital", never expecting her to remember it.

Now every time she bumps her head she says it perfectly, and it's the funniest thing. Everyone who hears her say it also bursts out laughing, and her grandparents think she's a genius. She also sometimes asks for other phrases so I'm convinced it's helpful for language development, although the wife gives me a glare every time I do.

So LPT: Teach your kid a few phrases that are totally disproportionate to their language level, and watch hilarity ensue. Use your judgement of course, probably shouldn't teach a 3 year old to say 'my penis is flaccid' or whatever...lol

7YO has always talked to/played with their collection of stuffed animals. Turtles/cats/stingrays/sea lions etc..

At the Vancouver Aquarium, we're over by the sea lions. They're lazing around napping in the sun, facing away from us.

7YO goes, "Watch this, I can speak sea lion."
"Uhuh, of course you can."

7YO goes up to the railing closest to the sea lions and in a loud voice goes, "Hey Sea Lion, AAARRRRPPPPPP!!!"

One of the sea lions cracks their eyes open, turns their head around and looks at right at 7YO.

"AAAAAARRRRRRRPPPPPPPPPPP," it barks out, then plops back down to nap.

"See? I told you I could speak sea lion."

Now 7YO just accepts it as fact they had a conversation with a sea lion.

Kid Logic.

You need to give them a chance to speak whale then.