[originalhypa]

Honestly man, do you really want to know what we're doing?
Or are you looking for guidance in your own life?

Not that it matters, I just wanted to ask.....


Anyway, it sounds like you hit a speedbump in the form of drugs/alcohol. First priority is to clean yourself up, and actively promote that you will never touch your poison again. That's the first step, and a good foundation to base your new life on.

Aside from that, why do you need an education to be successful?
It sounds like you're falling into the whole "I need to follow someone else's path" concept, maybe making your family happy?

Why not try a trade?
There's nothing wrong with being a plumber or electrician, and as far as money is concerned, these guys make a killing.


there is no "falling behind" when it comes to growing up, it's different for everyone. For example, I know dudes who are 30 and still live at home. You need to find your own way, by finding something you enjoy doing and focussing your time on that.

If I was you, I'd get your arse cleaned up, then look for work in the trades. Something that at the end of the day, you can look at what you've accomplished and feel a sense of pride.

But most of all, get cleaned up.
Being drunk or high is like building your house on mud. One day, everything you've built will sink, and you'll be left with nothing.

Good luck.