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Originally Posted by orange
i want to ask him why, but i'm definitely not going to say anything to him... i don't want to give him the satisfaction of knowing that his decision is causing me so much grief. i need to not think about him... alcohol only works when i'm not at work =/ haha
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If you're not going to tell him whats making you so mad then nothing is going to resolve, you can't just let it happen over and over again. I was in the same position as your boyfriend 3 months ago. I wished back then, that i knew what i was doing was hurting my girlfriend so much. I didn't realize how much i had hurt her until we broke up a month after and she told me everything. By then it was already too late. Tell him what hes doing that is making u feel that way and show him that it is bothering you. Also becuase you don't want him to have the satisfaction is just showing how both of you are so hard headed, sometimes its best to swallow your pride and get it out. Good Luck