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Originally Posted by banana_girl
right, lying about all that stuff because she was lonely? seems like another round of bull shit to me. i am so glad that you're dealing with this so well. i don't know how well i would cope with it if i were you. whatever is true or whatnot, it's too late now and it's a lesson for her to learn to not be so full of shit (no offense, lol)
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I'm not really coping all that well; I still can't sleep until sunrise, all I do all day when I'm not working is bumming around at home playing CS unless I get the rare urge to do something constructive... my skin's breaking out again, I've got severe bags, and somehow I think I keep hoping for another chance... I mean, she's bought me some stuff over there that I'd really die for lol...
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Originally Posted by hongy
hahaha okay maybe cause it was like 5 in the morning or something
butttttttttttttttttttt, we kinda drifted apart and I kinda said we should break up yet u know no response, so in the end that was my last resort.
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Ohh I thought you just decided to do it out of nowhere like my ex, if I was in your position and was being ignored like that I'd probably wind up doing the same.
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Originally Posted by michimaro
Ironically when I wanted to be "the one" the harder I tried, the more you seemed to pull back.
And now here we are....
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Sometimes it's better to just be yourself than to try too hard... I find it annoying when girls try too hard, it's both pressuring and makes you look a little desperate or obsessive. (From a guy's POV at least.)
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Originally Posted by hongy
2nd gf
held her hand within 1st month of meeting her
kissed her before we were "official"
finger banged her by the end of our first date
fucked her within first 2months of going out
broke up with her by the third month
does this make me an asshole?
why does posting in this thread make me super tired
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It makes you an asshole if somehow you coerced the sex out of her (making her feel guilty or taking advantage of her while drunk, etc); otherwise it's fair play and part of the game, I think.