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Marco911 · 10-01-2008, 10:59 AM

What Girl said, except I don't really agree that there is no affection or intimacy in a 'fuck-buddy' relationship. It's an understanding that for whatever reason, a fuck-buddy relationship will not become a monogamous partner-based relationship.

It is pretty clear that you still miss him and you are still feeling some emotional pain since the "break-up." Like a drug, seeing him makes you happy, and for the moment takes the pain away. You also think that there is a chance that he might see something in you that he totally missed the first time around and then give you what you want - a real relationship. I'm here to tell you, it rarely works that way! You're going to get even more hurt when he leaves you for someone else.

Best thing you can do is learn from the mistakes you made in past relationships, keep working on improving yourself and leave that sucker behind. The less contact you have with him, the easier it all becomes. You said yourself that you thought you were doing fine until you spoke to him on the phone again....see how this works?

10-01-2008, 10:59 AM	#384
Marco911 Marcosexual Fan Club, CEO Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: US Bush-country Posts: 7,741 Thanked 823 Times in 284 Posts Failed 236 Times in 113 Posts	What Girl said, except I don't really agree that there is no affection or intimacy in a 'fuck-buddy' relationship. It's an understanding that for whatever reason, a fuck-buddy relationship will not become a monogamous partner-based relationship. It is pretty clear that you still miss him and you are still feeling some emotional pain since the "break-up." Like a drug, seeing him makes you happy, and for the moment takes the pain away. You also think that there is a chance that he might see something in you that he totally missed the first time around and then give you what you want - a real relationship. I'm here to tell you, it rarely works that way! You're going to get even more hurt when he leaves you for someone else. Best thing you can do is learn from the mistakes you made in past relationships, keep working on improving yourself and leave that sucker behind. The less contact you have with him, the easier it all becomes. You said yourself that you thought you were doing fine until you spoke to him on the phone again....see how this works? __________________ Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another.