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rslater · 04-07-2009, 07:41 PM

With all the talk lately about approaching girls, how to get girls, how average guys can get hot girls, I thought i'd give just some simply advice on something that i've done over the last couple weeks.

Investing in yourself. Anyone who's a 4 or 5, should be able to move up to a 6or 7 with a little TLC. I decided it was time that their were things I wasn't satisfied with my self that was hurting my confidence when I approached women or women approached me. It was a feeling of hesitancy on my behalf because of self concious issues. My acne as a teenager really affected the way I reacted face to face with girls. I still unfortunatly to this day have a psycholigical impulse to step back when a girl comes close to me as a way or distancing my acne from them.

So i started a series of things to make me feel more confidenct. First, I went on accutane a couple years back which really helped me acne. While it took a while, it reduced it alot, and while now I still get pimples, they are managable and my confidence when I have clear skins is a million times better.

I also had an issue with wearing glasses in public. I simply felt that they made me look terrible, or that they weren't appealing to my face. I also felt that wearing contacts actually inhibited me from staying over at girls houses. While this sounds stupid and miniscule, it still prevented me from wanting to deal with my contacts. So i decided it was time for laser eye surgery which I just recently got completed. I immediatly felt a a sense of confidence in something that woudl help with personal contact up close.

Years ago I chipped my front two teeth a little and have always had some missing peices that I also felt were extremly noticable in my smile. While everyone would say it wasn't that noticeable, to myself it felt so, so I decided it was time to get fixed. I just recently had some dental work done that was fantastic and again I gained some confidence in smiling. They simply filled the cracked area with this stuff that looks identical to my teeths natural color.

So with all that said and done, I truly feel that by investing in yourself, you can gain the confidence that everyone says you need to be an alpha male. While their is only so much one can do to themselves, its important that you do it. I've provided links to the eye center and dentist, as references because they both were FANTASTIC.

http://www.seewell.ca/
http://www.morgancreekdentalclinic.com/

04-07-2009, 07:41 PM	#1
rslater WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in! Join Date: May 2005 Location: vancouver Posts: 1,620 Thanked 218 Times in 59 Posts Failed 43 Times in 16 Posts	Investing in yourself With all the talk lately about approaching girls, how to get girls, how average guys can get hot girls, I thought i'd give just some simply advice on something that i've done over the last couple weeks. Investing in yourself. Anyone who's a 4 or 5, should be able to move up to a 6or 7 with a little TLC. I decided it was time that their were things I wasn't satisfied with my self that was hurting my confidence when I approached women or women approached me. It was a feeling of hesitancy on my behalf because of self concious issues. My acne as a teenager really affected the way I reacted face to face with girls. I still unfortunatly to this day have a psycholigical impulse to step back when a girl comes close to me as a way or distancing my acne from them. So i started a series of things to make me feel more confidenct. First, I went on accutane a couple years back which really helped me acne. While it took a while, it reduced it alot, and while now I still get pimples, they are managable and my confidence when I have clear skins is a million times better. I also had an issue with wearing glasses in public. I simply felt that they made me look terrible, or that they weren't appealing to my face. I also felt that wearing contacts actually inhibited me from staying over at girls houses. While this sounds stupid and miniscule, it still prevented me from wanting to deal with my contacts. So i decided it was time for laser eye surgery which I just recently got completed. I immediatly felt a a sense of confidence in something that woudl help with personal contact up close. Years ago I chipped my front two teeth a little and have always had some missing peices that I also felt were extremly noticable in my smile. While everyone would say it wasn't that noticeable, to myself it felt so, so I decided it was time to get fixed. I just recently had some dental work done that was fantastic and again I gained some confidence in smiling. They simply filled the cracked area with this stuff that looks identical to my teeths natural color. So with all that said and done, I truly feel that by investing in yourself, you can gain the confidence that everyone says you need to be an alpha male. While their is only so much one can do to themselves, its important that you do it. I've provided links to the eye center and dentist, as references because they both were FANTASTIC. http://www.seewell.ca/ http://www.morgancreekdentalclinic.com/