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Case point: How much assets are they gaining by freeloading at home? Now compare the amount of assets gained over a measly $1000. It doesn't matter what the reason is- $1000 is a small price to pay to be able to freeload at home. We can't be too greedy.
And before we even start pointing fingers- did they even bother to ask or inquire about it? What if it's a simple case that the parents forgot? Why can't you say- "oh, did you get $1000 from (insert name here)?"
In regards to the babysitting- why not ask their reason for not wanting to babysit the kids? Also, if it's one day a week- why can they not put the kid in daycare? IMO if they're too busy to take care of a kid, they shouldn't have a kid. Don't selfishly wish for a kid then just put the responsibility of raising the kid to someone else. (THIS IS ONLY IF THEY EXPECT THE PARENTS TO TAKE CARE OF THE KID MORE THAN 4 DAYS A WEEK).
If anything, i'm wondering why this whole babysitting thing is such a huge issue. Parents already took care of the husband, now they're expecting them to take care of the kid? Even if they're just bumming around at home, it's their right to bum at home. They've already done their part in raising the husband. Don't expect them to bend over just to make the couples life easier. And as my gf mentioned- if it's such a big deal, go ask the girl's parents to babysit for them.
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