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Originally Posted by mgarba
Impact, it wasn't even the fact of being around them when they do it. I was honest and even said I'm not around when they do it, but I know that they regularly smoke. I was told you can't even associate with people who do it, period.
That isn't realistic.
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Why is it unrealistic? It comes down to choice. You have a choice wether or not you associate with them or not.
It comes down to how badly you want the career.
I got the same speech from them 3 years ago and I stopped associating with my friends and "bros" that used drugs since 2003. They understood the career path that I was taking and we went seperate ways. Id have to say I associate with ZERO people of that nature today.
I know people that have given up on a policing career because they absolutely refuse to give up their family and "bros." It means too much to them and it is what they value.
So the question again is : How badly do you want your career?