[tofu1413]

Originally Posted by Shuya80

bah woke up randomly...can't sleep..

@hongy

ok first thing. this is all gonna sound cheesy and retarded but it's the truth. its called highschool sweetheart. thing is that we are all human. girls can dump a guy and vice versa in a second if they see/want something that's much better then what they have now. People like to have the best for themselves and while i totally understand while ur coming from it's something you have to get over. i've had my share of ups and downs in relationships and while it seems awesome at the time in the end it ends. i'm not saying that i'm a guru at this crap but i'll tell u what i did when i went through this shit. i thought i was pathetic and why did i waste so much time on this shit. my dad then slapped me and said it's a learning process and to wake the fuck up. and that's all there is to it.

sure your friends and sister gave u warnings etc but u went through with it becuz thats wut you thought was best at the time. human emotion overpowers all reasoning. if she can talk to a guy for a week and then go for him then tell her to fuck off. if you see no future with her *use logic not ur feelings!* then fuck it. but from seeing what you wrote you sacraficed enough on your part and she did that so i say fuck it. she may have her own side of the story and by all means talk to her bout it and use your own logic *keyword LOGIC* and figure it out. if it don't work w/e if it does then fantastic and she's got alot of explaining to do.

its nothing to lose sleep over and trust me its true. theres plenty of fish in the sea. my dad told me this one thing before. marriage or w/e isn't all fate/true love or crap. it's a couple simple questions. can you live the rest of your life with this person normally? will he/she support you in everything you do no matter how bad/good? will he/she stand by u no matter what? this is a long shot but it goes like this. a wife/husband is more or less ur best friend you can share everything with.

if none of those fit then w/e have some fun take ur time but DO NOT sink to the level of what that honger did or ur ex. have some self respect and you'll come out the bigger man..who knows you might get some pity sex LOL. jokes aside though do your own shit and don't forget your values and respect. just cause one person is a dick doesn't mean you have to be one. hope that helps dude and best of luck.

newho gonna try to sleep again work tmr...in 6hrs...fuuuu!!

i hate to admit it.. but that kinda went to me too.

thanks tim =)