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Originally Posted by xzman
ok this is going to look upon this from another angle - your reasons for her to hit the gym are pretty selfish. you basically don't want an overweight girlfriend - kinda shallow if she's got everything else together. personally i couldn't care less if the girl i dated worked out. as long as she's healthy and a good person, i am fine with her - within reason of course as there has to be a physical connection. but to actually post in a forum to ask for advice on how to get your girlfriend to workout cause you think she's going to get fat? terrible. if she were to see this - after you've caused an innocent girl to develop an eating disorder - the only thing it's going to do is motivate her to kick your ass to the curb.
what if you suddenly got into a bad accident and were bound to a wheelchair and couldnt 'perform'? would you care as much that she was carrying an extra 10 pounds - or would you be happy that she accepts you no matter what
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If its a girl thats out of shape, we encourage them to go the gym.
If a guy is out of shape....a girl finds somebody else who is.
Its more likely to reason with a girl in the means of fitness as opposed to a guy. And besides...thats what this thread is supposed to be; motivating your girlfriend to be more active, not poking her fat and calling her names. Active awareness does effect a relationship.
But nonetheless, if my significant chooses to sit on the couch all night watching Gossip Girl, the Bachelor and all this other bullshit TV....thats something i could lose patience with.