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My advice is not to do anything rash. I think lots of people have a point when they say things like, "sleep with her before someone else does." But:
1. That means things have already ended between the two of you.
2. It'll just make the break-up messier.
From the sounds of it, you really like this girl. You're both at a time in your lives where you're definitely maturing and trying to identify yourself in society. It's common that she would start behaving a little differently.
Now...regarding her saying that if she sleeps with someone when drunk that that would be alright and if you did the same thing she'd be cool with that too, that is SO uncool. Objectively speaking, it's messed up. I think in a year or two, she would see that it's messed up too. As much as I'd hate to admit it, I think I might've said something as stupid as that in the past. In my defense, fortunately, I didn't actually do something stupid like that. But for some weird ass reason, at the time, I said that thinking there was truth behind it.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you're willing to be patient and risk that she just might be stupid enough to follow through on what she's allowed, give it some more time. It's an investment in the relationship you'd be making. I do feel bad for you tho, it's not a position any boyfriend should have to be in.
I appreciate your post tho. It's made me take a look back at my life and hopefully I can turn back and say that I've grown a lot from then. Still a lot to learn tho ^^
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