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Originally Posted by miss_crayon
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I think my 2 main questions are:
1. How do I stop worrying and thinking about her all the time, and how I get this idea that i might lose her out of my mind?
2. How do I meet and approach new people? Me being the shy/introverted/socially awkward makes things a bit challenging!
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1. you need to get active, either socially or physically. join a gym or some sports teams. also try and go out with ur friends and have a few drinks. make sure to turn off ur phone so you don't end up drunk text/dialing her.
2. i know this is not the best advice but just get tanked and you will usually end up talking to random people. it helps out in some social situations just as long as ur not a violent drunk lol.
ps. in general, if you find yourself thinking bout her or your situation with her, just take perspective. even if you end up breaking up with her in the worst possible way, you will be alright. of course its gonna hurt and you will feel shitty for a bit but ur a young dude just learning how to deal with relationships. its all good man. focus on other things bcuz breaking up is not the end of the world.