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Well, there's a time in everyone's life to go out drinking and partying it up. It's called experience. Straight and to my point: High school relationships usually don't withstand the college years not because people "change," but because people end up on different levels sooner than others. Out of all the people I've ever met, I only know of ONE relationship that has lasted since highschool. ONE!
There are people that never go through the party stage (ie yourself), and are probably more mature and have already developed a mindset of a non-partier family orientated adult. This definately makes it harder to stay together with someone who wants to party all the time. She will eventually "settle" down and be on the same road as you, but until that day comes, you two are just being together just for the sake of staying together. It'll do more harm than good as you'll end up worrying about her being out with other guys, she'll find you clingy... sound familiar?
It's your life, you should choose the best experience that you can have for yourself. 10 years from now, would you still want to date a 32 year old girl that parties all the time? Better question, how long would you be willing to wait at home while she parties with other guys? 6 months? 2 years? 10 years? It's not uncommon to see people in their 40's still frequenting clubs nowadays as a lifestyle~
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