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chickenugget69 · 09-23-2010, 08:06 PM

I know this isn't about relationships,but I didn't know where else to put this:

This is my senior year at highschool , last year. We're taking our Grad photos soon, where everyone dresses up formal and get a group of friends and pose in front of the camera. The group of friends I'm going with - we've been friends for years. We've shared lots of experiences and moments together, thru the great times, and the shit times.

However, today i just found out there is this random guy who's going to be joining us. Everyone is already unsure why he's going with us - we don't really know him. He's sort of an outcast in my grade ;p , he goes from group to group because no one really wants him;( . In 9th, he started hanging with this group, and since they never invited him to anything, he went and sort of joined ours.. we didn't really know him so we didn't invite him to anything either .. so then he left again and i dont know who he hangs out with now - and now, two years later, he's wanting to take photos with us

We discussed it, and i volunteered to get my hands dirty
I told him we didn't want him in the photo. I tried to put it as soft and less hurtful as I could. Now, he is talking to each and every one of us - and most of my friends are pretending they didn't even know about it so they are off the hook.

I feel like shit, and regret doing that now - i see him tomorrow in class, what do i do? i feel guilty because he doesn't have any other group of friends to take pictures with, but at the same time I want the photo to be exclusive - we don't even know him, he just asked one of us if he could be in the photo, and that guy is the kind of guy who just can't say No.

Now, everything is pinned on me since I volunteered to "kick him off" fml
i know i did something wrong - but I can't take it back , what should i do if he comes talk to me about it in school

09-23-2010, 08:06 PM	#1
chickenugget69 Proud to be called a RS Regular! Join Date: May 2010 Location: vancouver Posts: 114 Thanked 9 Times in 2 Posts Failed 27 Times in 9 Posts	grad photos I know this isn't about relationships,but I didn't know where else to put this: This is my senior year at highschool , last year. We're taking our Grad photos soon, where everyone dresses up formal and get a group of friends and pose in front of the camera. The group of friends I'm going with - we've been friends for years. We've shared lots of experiences and moments together, thru the great times, and the shit times. However, today i just found out there is this random guy who's going to be joining us. Everyone is already unsure why he's going with us - we don't really know him. He's sort of an outcast in my grade ;p , he goes from group to group because no one really wants him;( . In 9th, he started hanging with this group, and since they never invited him to anything, he went and sort of joined ours.. we didn't really know him so we didn't invite him to anything either .. so then he left again and i dont know who he hangs out with now - and now, two years later, he's wanting to take photos with us We discussed it, and i volunteered to get my hands dirty I told him we didn't want him in the photo. I tried to put it as soft and less hurtful as I could. Now, he is talking to each and every one of us - and most of my friends are pretending they didn't even know about it so they are off the hook. I feel like shit, and regret doing that now - i see him tomorrow in class, what do i do? i feel guilty because he doesn't have any other group of friends to take pictures with, but at the same time I want the photo to be exclusive - we don't even know him, he just asked one of us if he could be in the photo, and that guy is the kind of guy who just can't say No. Now, everything is pinned on me since I volunteered to "kick him off" fml i know i did something wrong - but I can't take it back , what should i do if he comes talk to me about it in school