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Originally Posted by Paper
So i like this girl and my bestfriend knows her. She has never talked to me. She knows who i am though.
EDIT:: Im a very shy person around people i dont talk to often.
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she has never talked to you before, but you like her? do you like girls this easily? how many dates before you fall in love romeo? 5? 7? after she shows you her pearly white smile? for all you know she could be a serial killer after her regular 9 to 5. you don't like her.. you don't even know her, you simply find her very attractive.
this isn't rocket science, you like her... simply say "hi, how's it going?" how else do you meet people? i don't care if you're shy, we all get that talking to a beautiful 9 or a 10. it's fine, but don't show signs of weakness. breathe, suck it up, head up high, back straight. "hi, ..."
that is the easy, smart, right thing to do... you know this, i know this. stop overthinking it... why the hesitation? fear of rejection? man up and overcome your fears. rejection is going to happen down the road anyways, and "what if's" are a complete mind fuck.
think optimistically, how proud would you feel if she became your girlfriend? this beautiful girl standing beside you on your dates is yours because of what you did! Sell yourself to her, and do a damn good job for your sake and pride.
just make small talk and close the deal(get the #) after a few minutes of talking, if you don't do it on the first couple encounters then you'll be in a sad place called friendzone. it's a mix of hell and blue balls, and instead of satan it's the beautiful girl you like. who knows, maybe she might not even be compatible with you and your stressing over nothing, again you don't know her at all. zero, zinch, nada.
pretend you're a salesmen, you can present the best presentation in the world, but it would mean nothing if you don't close the deal. ABC - Always be closing. give off a cocky yet funny persona, but not overkill. always keep it light and funny. can you do that mr. shy?
remember losers are losers because they don't know how to - or won't - close.
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Originally Posted by ruthless
But ill let V.Rossi chime in here since hes the RS relationship specialist
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haha cooool