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Seriously dude, take v.Rossi and palepilsenpin0y advice. They've hit the nail on the head like 100 times. There's really no other advice anyone else can give you.
I was in your situation before and I did almost did exactly what they both said. We were both really shy and we both had the same mutual friends. A few of my friends were also friends with her too. We never really spoke to each other because I was shy and I didn't know what to say. We had the same classes and stuff so I would sometimes ask her for "help" but that never really worked. The conversations just ended after she gave me the answer.
Eventually I said screw it and I'm just going to talker to her. So I just msgd her one day "hey how are you?" and then it just flowed from there. We ended up talking for like 4 hours and it was the first time I ever slept past my bed time LOL. I was still kind of shy so I had problems pressing Enter on the keyboard because I was scared that the conversation would be so awkward. It was never was awkward and we eventually got to learn a lot about each other.
We still kind of had problems talking to each other in real life since we were both really shy but we just eventually grew out of it. We both bussed in the same direction so I would bus her home. This kept going for a few weeks until eventually she told me that she liked me! I was kind of surprised that she said it and I told her I liked her too!
The rest is history!
Honestly, man up and either say hey to her in real life or on msn. I wouldn't do it over facebook well cause its facebook. A simple hey hows it going could spark an amazing conversation and you'll find out a lot more about her. I don't think it'd be pretty weird if you just msgd her on msn since you do have mutual friends. Leave the conversation on msn open ended so you can approach her the next day and pick it up from there.
Hopefully this kind of gives you a little more insight! Even though v.Rossi and palepislenpin0y pretty much said everything!
Good luck!
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