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Originally Posted by slammer111
I was just chatting with 1 of those friends, and he mentioned that after he recovers, he's only going for younger girls. Says there's too much pressure, especially when he's in the middle of a career transition.
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As if dating the younger girls aren't going to also give pressure, you'll be popping tylenols left and right. Not to mention they're also dumber and less mature.
Those two relationships were on skids anyways. Relationships don't end out of no where, they don't. A girls interest level in you doesn't just drop suddenly overnight, it's your actions that cause it to drop or rise. If the girl had 95% interest in them she would be willing to work around it. That’s the point that you have to understand here. Obviously, she’s not head-over-heels for them anymore - if she ever was.
But the truth is that we do live in an economic society. Yes, being broke is an excuse for the girls to not be with you. But the more important point is that she wouldn’t want or need an economic excuse if she was wild for you. Let me give you this parallel example. When you tell a stupid joke to a woman whose interest in you is 95%, she’ll laugh her head off. If she’s planning to dump you, your joke is just corny. To you Psych majors: It's all Interest Level and only hers matters not yours.
That said, you do have to have money coming in. Women cannot stand guys who are out of work. That’s just the way they’re built. And they have to be built that way because they need to protect the family. To keep a woman satisfied, the more you make, the better.