What opinion do you want or is this more of a discussion?
My opinion and it's a fact that nice guys finish last, you are the living walking proof of it. Leave the touchy heavy stuff behind, your question is just sappy. Do I expect a man to be asking a question like that? No. On top of that, it was a horrible reaction on your part. Show some class not show how much of a macho boy you are and slam a door. Never let them know they got to you.
Solution: Wait a couple days. About 2 days, don't wait longer because she might have forgiven you and moved on then you're only reminding her about it again. Ask if the door suffered any fractured bones. Something funny, then apologize but be vague about it. Don't apologize to her specifically or about you're behavior because you put yourself down by doing so, just ask that funny question then say sorry. Then charm the shit out of her by making her laugh and listening to her answers for the next while. Don't bring up this incident ever again, apologize just once. Don't overuse it. After leave communication to a minimum for 3 - 4 weeks to give her space.
Remember if she's already out with you, save the heavy stuff until years down the road. Let the female initiate that stuff, therefore you know exactly where things are going. Keep them guessing, I keep telling you guys this and here she has you guessing! Only her interest level matters, and if it doesn't raise her IL then don't fucking say it.
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