OP, you fucked up when you said 'why, what are you to me?'.
From a girl's POV, that's sort of a slap in the face. I realize that you meant it in a different way, but you totally worded it wrongly. No wonder why she was pissed off.
A lot of these posters don't even know what they're talking about.
trying to hold your pride and ignoring her till she messages you isn't gonna help you at all.
I'm not saying she's right. If she doesn't want people to walk out on her, maybe she should stop giving the cold shoulder. What does she expect you to do? Sit there until she's ready to talk? That could take days or even weeks! (Believe me, I'm a girl, I would know)
if you wanna fix things up, you need to apologize for losing your temper and being insensitive towards her feelings. if I were your gf, that would have translated to 'you aint shit I don't wanna talk to you everyday'
At the same time, don't apologize a million times, once is enough. And I wouldn't let her get away with thinking that she's completely right either.
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