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lol, you grew up with your parents (obviously), you should know what kinda problems you're gonna encounter.
depends how much you love your family and how traditional you are.
as much as we like to think the color of your skin doesnt matter, well it does, cuz it's obviously different, and that's all it takes.
he might grow on her, he might not. but if you're willing to live a life completely separated from your family, then ok.
or, he can try real hard and adapt your culture. and by try real hard, i mean try fucking hard so that if your parents even slander him, they'll lose face.
learn the language, learn the culture, be good at it. tell him to adopt their culture, and do it good.
im in tw and i have a few white buddies with tw gfs. or even wives now. you should see the look on their parents faces.
then you should look on their parents faces when these guys are more chinese than most chinese guys here. speak and read, know the culture like the back of their hand, respect the elders. harsh give them face. shower them with gifts and show them that he'll take real good care of their daughter. act "proper".
it's hard, but that's what you gotta do.
if HE isnt willing to do that, why should she be willing to accept him? right?
it goes both ways.
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