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Originally Posted by asian_XL
How do you do the math when it comes to paying off a mortgage or bills in above senario?
50/50 or pull out a calculator making it a perfect ratio? What if the guy has already paid off the mortgage by himself, does that mean he should let his SO pay all the bills? Either way, someone will eventually complain about it's being unfair. From time to time, I hear my asian friends complain about their gf/wife don't contribute much and still get blamed for not able to make more $$$. Oh trust me, they all act it's not a big deal in front of their gf/wife.
Don't lie, all guys has shitty feeling about paying more most of the time. They will eventually bring that shit up in a fight or just quit.
Like I said earlier, I find it comfortable when my girl makes as much as I do.
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Well lets be real here, you go into a relationship and into a commitment knowing certain things. If your SO doesn't have any post secondary education or is one of those people that just don't work or is a professional student, you have to understand there's nothing you can do to change that fact so you either leave them or you find ways around them. It's not like they can suddenly make a fortune. That's just the reality of it. What I find is that there are girls breaking up with their boyfriends not for the fact that the reality is that a combined income will sustain their living standards, but more the fact that they are greedy bitches and want the rich husband who would pamper the shit out of them.
As for mortgage and bills, I don't see how it's so hard to make it work if both parties take the others expenditures into consideration. Join accounts and pre-nups are also a great thing for that problem
