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Originally Posted by Teh Doucher
stability for a woman = enough money for her to wear prada shades, buy gucci bags, expensive shoes and drive around in a nice suv or car. now before someone calls me a pig etc, i know that all girls arent like that, but a LOT are. if i ever end up at that marriage stage, one of the first things im going to tell her is that if she wants all that nice useless expensive shit, she can work and pay for it herself.
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not a lot of girls want the shades, bags, shoes. at some age they mature and rethink their priorities in life. i would say a majority of the girls really aren't like this, of course the tall skinny clean blonde coke bottle figure maybe. perhaps the one that live downtown with their rich boyfriends. but overall not most chicks are like this.
if you end up at the marriage stage, why the fuck would you tell your girl that? you sound like an absolute keeper with that, great way to seal the deal there. she would realize within half a year, unless you've already been pampering her ass since day one. then your actions will speak otherwise.
girls are pretty independent, it's when you start giving her everything is when she stops bothering and relies on you and your wallet because she can and because you will.
if she
loves you and you're broke but putting in effort, then she'll work double jobs just to make it work. of course, no one wants to be taken advantage of but if you're putting in effort at least you could say you tried.
seriously, is anyone else not surprised that this topic has hit 5 pages? i mean this topic?!? if she leaves you because you're broke, you should have picked up the signs, or at the very least not have dragged the relationship that long or even consider marriage with the broad.
marry someone you can't live without and make sure it's fucking mutual. through thick and thin, she'll still stay. the i do's and i love you's are bullshit, actions are the only thing that matter.
no i ain't talking about the physical actions not when it comes to marriage. it's much more than that, though i will be expecting some nonetheless.