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I just think if you've been in a long term (and that's why I qualified it) relationship with someone. You can suck it up until they're stable. There's a lot of unknowns here too (which again I qualified). If it's her great uncle then go ahead and dump her now. If it was her twin sister you're dealing with someone who's probably a lot more emotionally fragile and if you have an investment of time and emotion in the person already you can stand to be there for them if nothing else but as a friend until they have at least one foot back on solid ground.
That was sorta my experience when I was in the same situation several years ago.
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