If someone touches a hot element... do they sit there bawling and screaming about how painful it is? No. They take their hand away.
You sir, are keeping your hand on the element and are taking your frustrations out on the world.
instead of focusing on the problem, why not work towards solutions.
I found myself in a similar predicament as you, you know what I did? I said I was studying but what I really did was learn time management. I got a job, apartment hunted, and went to school all at the same time.
One year later, I show up with a car (a shitty car but mine nonetheless), announced that I was moving out and gave my parents 2 options:
1. They could respect my decision, accept it and could have good relations visiting each other weekly.
2. They could not accept it, have bad relations and probably not see each other again.
guess what? now I can come and go as I please, bring girls over and do w/e the fuck I want wherever I want. Nothing like having sex while she's washing the dishes
