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Originally Posted by 40ft e-Peen
Sometimes, I know I shouldn't be using the 'everyone is doing it bs', but in reality, its the truth. I'm not saying I can do it just because everyone is doing it. I may go out once in a while, but when its the one time, they blow it up out of proportion and bring every other problem into the argument. If I come home at 1 or 2, they bitch and complain about me not graduated yet. Or they would bring in why aren't I like my cousins or their friends kids. They EVEN BRING IN not washing the cars last time or washing the dishes. WTF WHO DOES THAT?! The problem wasn't those things, the problem was coming home late. Also, if I DON'T DO the dishes ONE time, they will bitch about how I NEVER DO THE DISHES.  |
all those "little" things do bug them.. it is only the one thing that pushes them over the edge.. so now you know all the shit that bugs them.. either you do them , and make them feel that you are more than just a leech eating their food and using their hot water, electricity, the less likely they will treat you like an adult and not their kid. i guarantee, once you start washing yoru own dishes and help around the house, they will give you more respect.
you are not alone though, there are many if not the majority of asian kids that grow up doing shit all and being spoon fed until they are married... the best thing i ever did was move out. i moved out late, at 25, but if I could afford it earlier, I would have.