If you were dumb enough to ruin a good thing, then you deserve what's coming to you with the relationship. Whether or not you tell him...it'll eventually all unravel in one way or another. Maybe he will find out from somebody, maybe you'll crack and end up telling him etc etc.
I think he deserves to know, especially if you love him and think he's the one. You can't start a marriage/a family based on a lie. Yes, you may lose him..but perhaps you should stop being selfiSh and thinking "me me me," and think about letting him go to someone who actually would respect him.
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