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Originally Posted by Dfdgd
To be honest, im not ready just yet to give up, I only told her things needed to change a week ago, just the christmas thing just pissed me off alot. Today i met up with her and exchanged gifts and crap like that, and honestly when im with her im 100% happy and she means alot to me, and she says alot of reassuring things to make me think she wants to be with me, so her not wanting to be with me seems wierd to me. I understand that shes young and likes to party , I knew this before we dated and i guess i kinda didnt think it threw fully. While i was leaving we started to talk about, and i was asking if she was happy with me and she was 100% interested in being with me. She said she was but my ride came, we talked a little threw text, she asked if i thought she was 100% interested. I told her that sometimes i feel like she rather be with her friends. Then she says " noo well if someone tries to make plans then im gonna" Then i told her we'll talk about this in person because i don't like talking threw text when its serious.
I guess ill figure things out next time i see her.
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Successful men know that happiness in romantic relationships is not due to luck - it's due to using reliable principles and having a plan. If the things you've tried with women are only driving your emotions in circles and bringing you pain instead of ecstasy, then allow me to guide you.
Things are the way they are. If you go against reality, reality works against you, resulting in pain. For example, let's say that one day you decided that there is no such thing as gravity, so you jump off the Empire State Building. While in the air, you can believe what you want, but when you hit the pavement, you will realize that you went against reality, which ultimately resulted in extreme bodily pain.
Another example: You speed down the 5 Freeway at 120 mph at 2 a.m. with the lights off. Reality says you will experience the pain of having to defend yourself in court.
A third example: your female dates ask you to call them back before the date to confirm and for some strange reason, these call back to confirm dates only end with the dual pains of frustration and disappointment.
Rejection, man's most despised emotion, is the woman's way of telling a man that he turns her off. What do men do? Cloud up reality with their own ego(love's enemy) to believe what they(being you) want to believe.
- You do ALL the calling.
- She bails on you for other friends.
- You do not feel like a priority.
- 90% effort is coming from you, chump change 10% is recipricated through her.
There's a reason your friends don't go through all this bullshit and frustration, because they're smart. At least, smarter than you. They picked 'em right.
Maybe when you wake up and realize that she’s not a keeper, and you would have gotten rid of her a lot sooner. This is something else most guys don’t realize: When you stick with a hopeless situation, the clock is ticking and you’re losing time when you could have been hustling somebody else who is potentially a good partner.
Women don't lie, men just don't listen.
Tick tock, tick tock