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Originally Posted by !Yaminashi
Personally if my woman were to do something like that to betray my trust, I'm done.
I would imagine 95% of the guys here would say the same thing.
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IMO,
considering the gf is hiding/lying about her actions indicates that she knows what she's doing is wrong. This compounded by the fact that she considers it wrong when her bf used to grind up with other girls and made it clear it upsets her.
I just wish a lot of guys on RS grow a backbone and not always default women as damsels that need to be coddled. There's really nothing to talk about, nothing to explain, nothing to compromise, nothing to understand when she knows it's wrong the moment she forbade her bf of the same action.
OP, I'm not saying dump the gf but I'm saying you're well within reason to be angry for her crossing the line you BOTH drew and agreed upon. You being angry and putting your foot down is a hell of a lot better than the "eye for an eye/revenge" route. Likewise, you also have to make decisions when she doesn't take you putting your foot down on such an issue too well.