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Originally Posted by Noir
Depending on you where you choose to draw the line of improper/inapporiate/or complete violation of your relationship, can you put your foot down? Or will you still pull that Dr. Phil crap of lets talk, lets work this through, lets compromise, or lets just process this like any other problem?
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It's called maturity. Get some of it, and grow up. Lines get crossed, but there are ways of handling it without flying off the handle. Foaming at the mouth may get you immediate results, but think about that seed of resentment and negativity you're planting. Women don't forget crap like that.
I'm not sure what you mean by "improper/inappropriate/or complete violation", but that sounds like something that's probably a by-product of the fear and anger regimen that you practice.
Don't misunderstand that it's all sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows over here. It's not. There are times when I want to yell, but I've trained myself to resist the urge, and go at the situation with a level head. More shit gets accomplished this way. Seriously.
BTW, Dr. Phil can go fuck himself with a rusty-barbed dildo. I think he's an asshat.