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Originally Posted by Noir
Probably just as inbeneficial as having your gf grinding other guys IMO.
The problem with white knights is that some guys are so wrapped up with chivalry that they associate any negative reaction to women as condescencion; as if they're weaker and we must assert our dominance.
But what people can't dissacociate from that is that with anger, it's all just about, action = consequence. Not as a form of devaluing women to a lower stature of you because they're not. What they also don't get is the more we coddle women, the more we treat them as fragile, the more they're actually treating them as inequal to men. (are the women going to complain in this particular situation, heck no. It benefits them atm).
I mean, you'd get pissed off at your employee if he were to insubordinate. You'd be pissed off at your guy friend if he crossed a line with you (whatever that may be: theft, stealing your chick, making an inapporpriate remark about you mother). Why wouldn't you be allowed to be pissed off at a gf for certain actions? esp. the action in question with respect to the OP.
Is it because she has a vagina? Is it because you're hitting that vagina and you might lose your pussy retainer? Am I a male chauvanist because I hold women to the same regard as men? Because I chose to have limitations with my chivalry?
Also,
Has anybody ever given thought that some women have figured out the benefits of passive boyfriends? 
BTW Yaminashi, this post is not directed at you but just moreso to the discussion in general. I just quoted you because I'm continuing where the discussion last ended. |
No worries man, I didnt take it as you coming at me at all.
But I do agree with what you're saying. If you're mad at something your woman did, let her know cause she sure as hell would let you know.
(But within reason)
In OP's situation I think he'd have every right to let her have it, especially since she was the one who didnt like when he would dance with women.
But at least he came out and discussed it with her when she voiced her dislike for his actions.