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Originally Posted by Tachycardia!
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My SO went on vacation for a bit and the first couple of days, I missed him a lot because I wasn't used to not waking up to a text or a call from him. We've been keeping in contact through an international text here and there, but mostly through Facebook.
Today before he left to start his day he told said I love you to me. It didn't even cross my mind to say I love you back, all I said was "have fun today." He asked me why I didn't say I love you back, and honestly, its like I forgot, I had no urge or want to say it, it just didn't occur to me!!!! And instead of saying I love you in reply to his question, I said "I'm sorry. I don't know."
I'm confused at myself right now, do I love him? do I not? are my feelings fading just because of time and distance? he's only gone for a month, but I don't know what I'm feeling right now, or if i'm feeling anything at all.
I can't say that I miss him, I'm not even sure if I do or not. Can someone help me decipher this a little? I'm certainly feeling a whole lot of guilty... any comments and input will be appreciated.
Thanks
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It's I love you. You forgot. Not the end of the world.
I'm assuming you and your bf text a lot and possibly see each other a lot? Okay so he leaves, obviously the first few days will be hard strictly due to habit. Okay a few days later...you suddenly don't miss him as much and life seems okay, you seem to want to see some old friends, don't seem so rushed when having dinner with your family? Does that mean you don't love your boyfriend because you don't miss him? Probably not, just probably means that you're taking a breather from one another and having some time to yourselves and tending back to your own life.
Distance makes the heart grow fonder, if without his presence you seem to lose that and you find yourself trying to look better for other boys...it might be time to start re-evaluating your feelings and your relationship. If not and you seem to just be enjoying life, probably means you should be doing more of it when he is back.