[miss_crayon]

How long were you guys "single" before meeting each other and dating?

If she is still texting her ex and saying all that stuff..I'm gonna take a hunch (sarcasm) that she is NOT over her ex and clearly needs to take a breather from dating. It's not fair to you if someone comes home to you but her mind is somwhere else. Sorry, but it kind of sounds like she's using you as her rebound.

It is however, normal for her to feel so confused right now because:

A) She hasn't given herself the time to really get over her ex--especially if was a long term relationship..it's not going to be forgotten within days or weeks..or even months. Just because you got over your previous relationship so quickly, doesn't mean others can do the same so quickly.

B) She wants to move on and focus on a great guy like yourself..but can't because of A.

You may have strong feelings for her right now, but if you allow this to continue while you guys are "together" chances are..later down the road when you guys are a couple and you think everything is great...she might just break the news to you one day when she can no longer keep this charade going on. I say, save yourself the hurt later on and let it go now. If you guys happen to date later in the future--great! But for the time being.. I don't think is going to work.